Girls Gone Wild

Role models, anyone? Lindsay Lohan (aka LiLo) is back in rehab. Britney was reportedly throwing up in public last weekend from too much partying ... again. Mischa Barton was hospitalized after a Memorial Day party where she allegedly mixed alcohol with antibiotics. Nicole Richie sent out an email invite to that very party and insists she was “joking” when she told her friends friends “No girls under 100 pounds. There’ll be a scale at the door.” And we all know where Paris is headed next month. Our kids are growing up with these stars and celebutantes as role models. Their antics are strewn across magazines, blogs, and the evening news. But what kids may not know is that these media role models can have a profound effect on their own behavior and expectations. So what can parents say to kids who look up to them?

Check out our talking tips:

- Point out all of the places that kids see drinking —ads, movies, TV shows, celebrity news. Tell them that these appearances are all designed to get them to drink.

- Let kids know what’s at stake—that the age many kids say they first try alcohol is 12.8 and that 47 percent of kids who start drinking before age 14 become alcoholics within 10 years.

- We already know how advertising impacts drinking among teens—so why should we underestimate the influence of today’s celebutantes? Talk to your kids about the influence of their peers and media personalities.

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06.15.2007
Corinna Walker
We absolutely must teach our kids to be independent thinkers, to not take things at face value, and to question where information comes from. I sometimes find it really difficult to burst through the bubble the media creates around kids' experiences, but at the end of the day, I want my kids to be able to decifer between a hero and celebrity drunk. I want my kids to inspired by courage, truth, and compassion, not by looks, weight, and revolving boyfriends.
06.14.2007
Anni Garfield
This is such a huge and important topic. It's amazing the things kids pick up--as any parent knows. I'm constantly talking to my girls about the decisions celebrities and so-called "role-models" make. I ask them what they would do or how they might behave differently. The media is a powerful influencer, and we as parents and educators have to step in and engage in dialog with our children about it!
06.14.2007
Natalie Josef
Good article and advice. I think that we should also point out to kids that people in Hollywood are real people and are only artificially set apart from the rest of us. They need to understand that anyone - not just people on TV - can be role models. It's up to us to expose them to people with character, dignity, and balance. If we let TV raise our kids, it's our fault they aren't getting better messages.
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