My Sister Rocks: Stepford Stories

My sister rocks. No, really she does. My sister plays flute in the rock band The Polyphonic Spree. People infinitely more qualified than me have tried, and in my infinitely unqualified opinion, have failed to describe The Polyphonic Spree with words. People who write words for money in publications that are widely read, like Rolling Stone for instance, have failed to capture the essence of this band. While music is my sister’s genre, words are mine. And words are inadequate to define or even adequately describe The Polyphonic Spree. Seeing this band live is an experience like none other that exists in my Stepford life. Last night I took my eight-year-old daughter to see The Polyphonic Spree’s annual Holiday Extravaganza. Last night was exactly what my soul has been craving.

I’m five and half years older than my sister and that’s older enough to remember her clearly as a toddler. From the moment my own daughter was a toddler, I began seeing my sister. There is a picture of my sister as a small child on The Polyphonic Spree’s Web site and the first time I clicked on it my breath was taken away. I have photos of my own daughter that would be hard to distinguish from the one on the Web site. My daughter’s personality is also much like I remember that of my sister’s personality as a child. Perfectionist, independent, passionate, and gifted. My sister’s gift is music. My daughter’s gift is soccer. The gifts are different. The commitment to them is the same.

My daughter loves music, I’m not sure she has a gift for it yet, but she certainly has an appreciation. So, yesterday she and I climbed into the Palinmobile, cruised out of Stepford and headed into the city. The concert was at Dallas’ renowned and beloved Granada Theater on lower Greenville Avenue. The minute we hit Greenville Avenue from the highway, I felt out of place. My SUV is entirely too large for this part of town. The narrow lanes carved into the skinny streets were not created with my vehicle in mind. The tight turns required to get into the parking lot behind the Granada necessitated me to take a few curbs along the way. Actually parking the behemoth that I drive inside a parking space in this lot was not physically possible. The gigantic truck tires protruded over the yellow lines on each side. Thankfully, a VW Beetle and a Honda Fit slid in neatly on each side.
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11.30.2009
Jayne Martin
Beautiful, Kristi. So nice to read your writing again, even it if is from a year ago. Do not let others around you drag you down. It may be your calling to raise them up. Above all, write, girlfriend. Write.
11.24.2009
Linda Medrano
Darling Kristi- You are a treasure to those of us who can only emulate your power and what you are accomplishing with your words. I adore that you are are a loving and wonderful mother, in spite of having a sterling role model for the role. You are also a woman who stands up for what she believes in. Don't ever sell yourself short. You are living the dream. And it's the kind of dream that many people will never appreciate. Just you being you is the best thing of all! Love, Linda.
12.26.2008
Dana
You make me want to come hear her play! We all need a little more passion in our lives, good directed passion. Otherwise it comes up and out in truly negative ways. Lovely story (again!!) Kristi, thank you!
12.15.2008
David White
Kristi, You show, yet again, why I so identify with your writing, your thoughts. You live among strangers, in a strange land, yet you maintain, actually cannot deny, who you are; you can't deny your heart. I feel the same way so often, having the occasional moments of escape, of, "So, this is living?" You find where you fit, and you don't feel so strange anymore, that maybe, just maybe, the others around you, where you live, are the strange ones. It reminds me of a few lines from Byron's Childe Harold, where, when talking of others around him, he says, "They could deem me among them, but not of them." You may live among the Stepford Wives, but you are far from "of" them. You question, you ask why, and why not. You say you want your kids to follow your sister's example, follow their passion, not their mind as you feel you have done. Don't sell yourself short. The example you set in remaining true to your heart, damn the surroundings, is not to be overlooked. Thank you.
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