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What Is the Most Important Quality for Parents to Have?

Whenever a news story about blatantly unfit parents surfaces, people grumble, “You need a license to have a dog, but any weirdo can have a baby!” But then again, if they instituted tests before people were allowed to breed, who’s to say any of us would pass?

Nobody’s perfect, and parents are no exception. Yet we seem to have some unspoken agreement on what qualifications make a fit parent. What one quality do you think is non-negotiable for a mom or dad to have? Empathy? Patience? Financial resources? If you were granting parenting licenses, what’s the most important thing you’d look for?


06.30.2011 Report
Hard question to answer, because there are several qualities that are non-negotiable. But I believe the top quality is unconditional love. Children need to know that no matter what...they are loved. No matter what...their parents will be there for them. Don't get me wrong, unconditional love doesn't mean excusing bad behavior. You can still be a consistent disciplinarian and a tough task master. But at the end of the day, your children must know that you love them over and above anything else in the world. Self-esteem, self-confidence, and self-reliance are born from a child knowing he or she is just tops in your book!

06.29.2011 Report
Hard question to answer, because there are several qualities that are non-negotiable. But I believe the top quality is unconditional love. Children need to know that no matter what...they are loved. No matter what...their parents will be there for them. Don't get me wrong, unconditional love doesn't mean excusing bad behavior. You can still be a consistent disciplinarian and a tough task master. But at the end of the day, your children must know that you love them over and above anything else in the world. Self-esteem, self-confidence, and self-reliance are born from a child knowing he or she is just tops in your book!
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