The Seven Worst Dog Breeds for Families

Last Thanksgiving, we had a big family feast at our house, which meant more little kids afoot than my dog is used to. Luckily, he’s the best-behaved dog I’ve ever seen when it comes to children’s antics, adopting a Gandhi-esque stance of nonviolent resistance. In other words, he lies there and takes their poking and prodding, usually pretending to nap. 

I’m grateful that my dog is so trustworthy around kids of all ages, because there are many dogs that have the opposite reaction to them. That’s important to keep in mind when shopping for your family’s new pet, especially because it’s easy to get drawn in by cuteness and the lack of effort to do research beyond that. A dog’s socialization history is more telling than anything, but there are some breeds that might not be the best match for families with young kids. 

1. Dalmatians
This dog breed was extremely popular a few years ago during the 101 Dalmatians craze, but what the movie failed to demonstrate—which resulted in many dalmatians’ being taken to pounds—is that they can be high-strung and nervous around children. 

“They’re also more prone to deafness,” says John Vinton, a Bay Area–based dog trainer I spoke to about dog choices for families. The fact that they might not hear people approaching, especially kids who tend to give little to no warning, could make them reactionary. 

2. Chihuahuas
They’re so small that people think of them as harmless, but chihuahuas are highly possessive and can get jealous when other people, such as new babies, enter their territory. They get bark-happy and will even snap at others if they feel provoked. “They’re much more nervous dogs, and that’s why they’re not great around kids,” John points out. If a chihuahua’s been around kids his or her whole life, this is less of an issue. But they are pickier than most breeds about their human preferences; sometimes they don’t even like all the members of their household. 

3. Akitas
These dogs “tend to be a little more aloof and don’t bond as much with their owners,” John says. “They were bred as guard dogs, and so they don’t bond as strongly, in my opinion.” That aloofness makes it hard to anticipate their moods or next moves. Proper training from the start is essential with Akitas, as they’re naturally stubborn and will turn aggressive if facing unfamiliar situations and people—or if they’re annoyed at kids pulling their ears. 

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To get a really good dog, always try to get a mutt. A mutt will usually be less high-strung than a purebred dog. I love my jack russel/boxer mix. ^^
04.21.2010
Amanda Igaki
I'm surprised Shiba Ken (Shiba Inu) didn't make the list even though Akitas, Shar Peis and Chow Chows did. Although my two Shibas love kids and are very playful.
04.20.2010
Lynna
I have a Lhasa, and he is extremely loyal to me, but VERY wary of strangers. He is fine with my kids unless they get rowdy around him, then he gets rowdy. But most of the time, he is a very calm dog---especially for a small dog. The thing is, not only are Lhasas headstrong, they are also very good watchdogs. I have a "beware of dog" sign up---even though strangers may think it's a joke because he's such a cute little dog...it's not.
11.06.2009
Harriet M
Glad my dog didn't make the list! It's true that the dog's history is what's most important, however--have you ever met a mean golden retriever?
I agree, Shyla--I think it definitely depends on the individual dog and its history. Having said that, most chihuahuas I've met have been awfully cranky.
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