What to Do Now?

I have been dating this man for three years. Yes, he had baggage, but I patiently waited. Just recently I found out that he got a twenty-nine-year-old pregnant and hid it from me till the baby was due. The only way I found out was through a friend. He claims that it was just a fling and they are not together, they just have a baby. But what makes this so hard for me is I am not able to have children, and now this woman has had a baby with the man I love. I am devastated.

 

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03.31.2011
D C
I got all the advice John has below - and I agree. This man is making you feel doubtful and untrusting and you are blaming yourself for it. Find someone who doesn't make you feel that way and can give you the life experience YOU want. D -- http://nalaanddamayanti.wordpress.com
03.28.2011
John
It's hard to think straight with all the emotion right now. Nevertheless, I am going to say it like this: Make YOUR life work for YOU. Stop waiting for a man (of all people) to get his life on track. Stop waiting for a man (of all people) to make you happy. Stop waiting for a man. Stop waiting. And start living. Start living for YOU! That's what you do now. That's what you should have done all along. Take care of YOU. You desrve it.
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