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How Much Does Your Number of Sexual Partners Matter to You?

In the upcoming romantic comedy What’s Your Number?, funny girl Anna Faris plays Ally, who is told by her girlfriends that women who exceed twenty sexual partners will never find a husband. Distraught, Ally decides to revisit her twenty lovers in hopes of finding “the one” among her old flings. While the movie promises to be a bawdy flick, full of comedic greats like Andy Samberg and Joel McHale, the storyline begs more serious questions: Does the number of people you’ve slept with matter? Why do women attach so much importance to the number of sexual experiences they’ve had?

Given the longstanding double standard when it comes to sex-counts (men get more high-fives the higher the number and women get judged basically either way), some women hide their number or use the good ol’ divide-by-two-and-subtract-by-four formula. We’re curious: do you care about the number of sexual partners you’ve had? How many is too many in your eyes?

11.17.2011 Report
I like the movie and it really tells us about the experienced of a liberated person.How she/he handles the relationship and try to find a way to be happy and love.Sex in many and different person is not an answer to true love but just a spicy to our love relationship.
09.28.2011 Report
I definitely don't think there is some magic number and I rarely even think about mine. I went to see a pre-screening of What's Your Number with some of the DivineCaroline team and even though it had some laugh-out-loud moments, what bothered me about the movie was how judgmental Ally's friends are. She didn't need to stop sleeping with whoever she wanted...she needed new friends!
09.28.2011 Report
John hit it right on the head. ENJOY LIFE!!!
09.27.2011 Report
With me I don't judge other people on thier number partners, I just judge me. (although it is not a high number) When you feel a connection with someone and you care for them i don't see a problem with it but if you one of those people just trying to add to their "kill count" for props then there is a defiant problem.
09.27.2011 Report
Most of us probably know when we do something (or someone) we shouldn't have. When you feel the twang of guilt for doing it too often or without protection, your number is relevant in my opinion. If you've been with twenty people and eighteen of them were experiences that made you feel a little guilty, that's a problem. If you;ve been with twenty people and eighteen were with people you felt good about being with, then your number is fine.
09.27.2011 Report
Just another arbitrary nonsense rule that society (more specifically, women) like to place on women - and men, for that matter. It doesn't matter how many lovers you have had. The question is, have you ever had love? And to judgmental people like Lori Weidner - who are probably more miserable than they let on - stop being such a prude! More importantly, stop judgiing people by your own narrow minded view of the world. Enjoy life, everyone. It doesn't matter if you have zero lovers, ten lovers, or a hundred. Enjoy life!!!
09.27.2011 Report
Yes - I've had only one and wouldn't do it any other way - stop being so trampy!
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