What Makes A Man Run After Date One?

He runs if he doesn't have fun, or doesn't get lucky. If he runs because he didn't get lucky - congratulations! You won! Wave once, click your heels twice, and record that sucker in your annals of "Dudes to avoid forever". Seriously, the most important thing is for him to enjoy himself. If you don't have fun making the evening enjoyable for him - let him go. One date is too much investment in someone you don't relate to, and that doesn't enjoy your company. If he can't be bothered to see that you have fun, too, that also says a bunch.

Men are very different in character, needs and desires. What may make one man run after the first few dates, may be viewed as a challenge by others. Perhaps a better question would, be what makes a man stay after the first date? Any intelligent man knows that women are different, with many different experiences. Many good women have been hurt and betrayed by dishonest men, who have no honor. I am speaking as a man! Women who have been deeply hurt, will require a great deal of patience, kindness and maturity. However there are behavior patterns, which will drive all but the most desperate men away on the first dates. Anger and negativity will drive a good man away faster than anything I can thing of. This is easily seen on the first few dates. A woman who complains about the dinner, traffic, weather etc is a red flag for me! It can make a woman of even stunning beauty, very unattractive. It is a real turn-off. No one wants to be around a negative, complaining person.

NOTE: extremely tan men make women run.