The beginning of a new relationship is sooooo wonderful. Everything’s fun and exciting (even a tad scary). But it’s such a RELIEF to FINALLY find someone you’re attracted to and can connect with.
Aaaahhhh ...
This is also a time when a man ... when he’s REALLY into a woman ... can call or e-mail or text her constantly.
“I really like him,” my client Jane whined. “But I don’t know. It’s just ... he’s calling me all the time.”
I sensed that even though Jane was flattered, she was a bit annoyed. Like the guy was soooo into her that she was actually bothered.
Guess what, girls?
That’s a GOOD thing!
You WANT a guy to keep calling and texting and e-mailing. It’s when he STOPS that you start worrying!
Most guys are single-focused—and more simple-minded than women. (This is not an insult ... it’s the way nature made us.)
When a man is REALLY into a woman, he pretty much targets his attention towards her and wants to be with her. Constantly. That means ... most of the time.
Many women don’t get this. (I didn’t.) (Way back when.)
Jane was overwhelmed by so much attention, that she did the exact opposite of what she really wanted to happen.
Jane thwarted her man’s pursuit by not taking his calls or not being available to see him and (arrrrggghhhh) telling him that he calls too much!
And guess what?
