I received a darling note from a single Italian woman living in Texas. She wrote: “I appreciate all your information, but where are all the great successful single men?”
I wrote back, “In Italy.” (Of course.)
Then she requested I personally bring the great men to her and her friends.
Ahhhh. I would if I could.
But then what?
Because it really doesn’t matter where you find a Great Man if you don’t know what to do with him.
So the question becomes, “Are You a Great Woman?”
Often I hear women complaining, “There are no good men. All the great ones are taken.”
So as a woman, who are YOU when it comes to relationships?
What are your thoughts? What are your habits? What are your beliefs?
If you’re thinking there are no Great Men out there, guess what?
You’re right.
There are NO Great Men.
If you think you attract jerks and nerds. Guess what? That’s exactly what you attract.
If you think all the Great Men are taken, you’re right. They are.
But if you think there ARE Great Single Men out there ... You’re absolutely right!
Great Men are everywhere. They roam the planet. You’ll find them at the bank. Or at the drycleaners. Or at the grocery.
It’s possible to find Great Men in the most obscure, remote, unexpected, and unlikely places. They come in surprising packages. (Not at all what you’d expect.)
I met my Great Man on a sailboat in the middle of the Mediterranean. He was a bartender. And he was ten years younger. And he didn’t speak English (well). And he lived in Italy (when he wasn’t sailing around the world).
