Do you find yourself racking your brain to figure out a way to connect to the men that you meet? Are you looking for a way to attract the attention of QUALITY men?
Do you want men to CRAVE your company?
You know how men can clam up and close themselves off right when you have something earth shaking to talk about? I hate that, don’t you?
Colleen told me in an email, “I thought he was in to me. We talked and talked at dinner last week and now he hasn’t called. I wonder what I did.”
“Tell me about him,” I asked her. Colleen started to tell me the basics, where he was from and what he did for a living, but then she fell back into her list of complaints about him and every other guy who let her down.
Can you relate? Are you sick of meeting men that seem great and then disappear? There is one thing you can do that will completely fascinate a man and it isn’t what you think. Plus, so few women know this secret, you will stand out from the crowd.
When you look into a man’s eyes and open your heart, mind and EARS you are on your way. Yes, it is your EARS that are the key to a man’s heart. Most men are literally STARVING for someone to just Listen to them.
It takes focus and intention to really hear what the man of the moment is talking about. But…if you choose to do this….to really Listen to the heart behind the words, you will be a Wonder to him.
Every man has a story or ten to tell. Even if he has told you the story before, there are still questions you can ask to deepen his experience of being heard.
Mary told me about her experience in an email:
“We went out to celebrate Veteran’s Day with a breakfast out. I had heard his stories many times but on this day, I felt especially moved to ask him again about his Viet Nam war days. My husband was so engaged with me. It felt wonderful. When I listen to my man…really listen, I feel an amazing connection with him. I wish I would have known this secret years ago!”
