What’s the Worst Thing a Date Has Said to You?
For those of us who weren’t lucky enough to have met our true love early on, the dating world can be rather daunting. While some dates are a rousing success, most of the time, it seems we emerge with horror stories, baffled at the things that come out of people’s mouths. From the guy who asks if you are worried about your eggs to the snob who asks what your parents do for a living, we seem to come across Prince WTF? way more than Prince Charming. What’s the worst thing a date has said to you?
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Heh. "It's a good thing you're not real pretty, so I don't have to worry about other guys chasing you." Needless to say, I didn't stay with him for long.
I recently turned the big 40. . . and am feeling somewhat insecure, so i absolutely hate it when a guy tells me that I look good "for-my-age"!!!!! Innocently enough, they obviously see it as a compliment. . . but little do they know- - I take it as an INSULT !!! THANKS ALOT GUYS !
Well I was giving this guy I was dating a back massage and it was very innocent. Then he stopped me and said, "This is nice and all, but I've got a another muscle that needs some attention." You know what he meant by that, right? Well, that was the last date I ever had with him, and c'mon, that's not a date anyway---sitting in his basement and being treated like a servant! We must have more self respect ladies! Don't stand for it! Who cares how good looking he is!
"If you don't marry me, nobody will want you!"
well the worst thing that was ever said to me was,you( want me) it wasn't said like that,but just the thought that this person said that to me,just killed me.i am 46 years old been marryed and divc.and i have no kids,one 25 year old daughter,no grandkids.i have been on a lot of dates in my time,please i have gotten a lot of things from,men from all over the world.and i lived overseas,so if you have lived there you know just what i mean.good luck with dating in this new" era" Vita M. King
The one that sticks out in my mind the most was "If you keep eating that way, you are gonna get fat!" This was many years ago, and even since then I haven't been big enough to give blood unless I was pregnant, so this cracks me up-now. Then, I was furious and he knew it too.
So...here's my story. I met a 50 year old guy online. He's from NV, I'm from TX. I'm 33 and always like guys 10 years older than me. He looks young on the picture so I agreed to meet him in TX. He told me he felt like going to a job interview. Since he was my guest from out of state, I offered to take him with me when i volunteer deliver food for meals on wheels. While I was driving he said " My daughter told me to find someone because she is not going to take care of me when I get old". My interpretation was "I'm just looking for someone to wipe my a$$ when I get old". Long story short, I dropped him off at his hotel and never see him again.
It wasn't so much what he said as what he did. Most first-date conversations revolve around "what are you into" type of things, you know, getting to know you stuff. This date procedes to start telling me about his late grandmother and begins to cry. My education on dating always implied that crying or emotions other than happiness should be reserved for future dates (as in MONTHS) down the road. I'm glad your close to your family, but learn the limits.
Any years ago I met my teenage loved after 30 years. We had been dating about 2 months and were ready to
make love...she did´nt like my way to chat and slowly go to the fever point. After a while of kissing warmly..
to my mind she asked me to rape her..I was confused but thought OK she wants that I´ll play the game...
After some speedy "fucking" she asked me whether I have a cock of no feeling as I did´nt cum...
Unnecessay to tellYou our romance was to come to the end ...thank gods.
I was a snob and thought I try to be open-minded and date a salesman. He didn't do himself a favor by telling me that I got a "Western" education (I am Asian and had just finished university in the U.S.) so I should have no problem being "open" (meaning easy -- sorry I agree he IS a jerk). I said yes to his date but had no intention of showing up. LOL! He didn't know I learnt alot about life while living on my own in the U.S. I became very independent and stood up for myself. So I stood him up! Yup he rang me later as he had been waiting for an hour!
