My name is Ashley and I am 7 months pregnant. I love and care for my boyfriend very much. We have been together for 5 years and this will be our first child. A lot has went on in those 5 years. I am 19 and he is 21. When I met him I was only 15. I have a very bad relationship with his family. His older sister and brother don’t like me. Sometimes i think it has something to do with my boyfriend being the youngest. I haven’t seen his mom since I been pregnant and his sister feels has if my boyfriend shows me more respect than her. She also told me that she is mad because my boyfriend rather hang wit me than his family on holidays. In the past I wasn’t totally faithful to my man but that’s in the past. I’m much older now and I feel differently. His sister said she wasn’t sure if I loved him and she is mad because she doesn’t know me and me and my boyfriends have been together for so long.
Recently I was at the gas station and happen to run into an old friend that I went to school with. My boyfriend also knows him. We were talking and he asked how me and my boyfriend have been. After talking with him I went home ate some food and went to sleep. My boyfriend woke me up when he called me. He said his sister saw me at the gas station and I was like and! He said and she said she saw you talking to some boy and she took a picture of you. I said took a picture of me for what. He said she was trying to look out for him. I didn’t understand. I wasn’t kissing or hugging the boy so what’s the point in taking a picture. I thought that was petty being the fact that I am 19 and this girl is 27. She was with her mom which means her mom saw me too. Neither one of them said hi to me. That upset me a little. I just want my son to be able to know his family without all this confusion. Me and my boyfriend are in love and it hurts me to see him be put in the middle. This past weekend his brother and sister tried to fight him over the same incident. What’s the problem with me talking to someone is that considered cheating? It’s almost like they don’t like me and they aren’t interested in making a change. I try not to let it stress me out but it gets hard. I have tried twice to come and talk to his mom but it never came through. Please help me what should I do?
