I have just read the last book in the Shop-a-holic series by Sophie Kinsella, Shopaholic and Baby (the best book of the series IMO). While I found Rebecca funny in a “she reminds me of my best friend but not myself” way, which is a peculiar feeling of relief and smugness, there are definitely some things I share with her, which undoubtedly frustrate my husband (or at least leave him perplexed) as much as they did hers. As much as I consider myself fairly gender neutral, I do believe some of these things are specific to women and are a total mystery to most men:
1. That while on a road trip, half the fun is stopping along the way at “curiosity” markets, any kind of little boutique that isn’t part of a chain (hence specific to the area being visited—hello, local culture) and most stores with a “sales” sign on the window. So what if we arrive a bit later? The journey is not just about the destination, you know.
2. The appeal of the following items (and why you must have at least some, and add more to your collection on a regular basis): charm bracelets, bangles, everyday bags, special occasion bags, cute everyday shoes, awesome special occasion shoes.
3. How it can take days, or even weeks, to find the perfect outfit and accessories for a special occasion.
4. Why it’s fun to try on clothes, shoes, jewelry with your best friend, even if neither of you is planning to buy any.
5. How you can have a full closet and still retain the right to say “I have nothing to wear for this!”
