Did I Marry the Right Person, Part 1

In some of your low moments have you asked yourself this question: Did I marry the right person?
We must realize that our marriage/relationship like all others has a life cycle:

1. In the beginning: You fell madly in love with each other, anticipate each others calls and touch and like each other’s peculiarities. 

2. After a few years of marriage: Some kids have come along, the euphoria of love has faded, the phone calls are far and in between and may at time be a bother. Touch is not always welcome. Those kinky peculiarities become irritation and annoying.

At this stage you may begin to ask yourself: Did I marry the right person? Have I made a mistake?

If this stage is not handled properly it may lead to a complete breakdown of your marriage.

Most couples blame each other for their unhappiness and think the solution lies outside the marriage;

1. With someone else or
2. In work or
3. Church or
4. In a new hobby or
5. A friend

But most interestingly the answer to this dilemma you find yourself in does not lie outside your marriage, it lies within.

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