I know that men are generally stimulated by sight; women are generally stimulated by sound and smell. Sex can get better as the years go by. Love deepens. I have experienced doubts and insecurities when it comes to sex. A great marriage and great sex emerge from these struggles, and the frequency of sexual activity often increases whenever the barriers are removed to find the best lovemaking. Sex is very spontaneous and I never make one room the only place for sex. I will keep this in mind once I get married, and I will find ways to re-create moods and fantasies that will keep my sex life alive. Romance is creating a way to say, “I love you.” Romance can happen anywhere, in the home or somewhere special. I could never bring myself to hold hands with a girl in public and I never will nor will I let a girl kiss me. In a marriage there are still personal secrets and fears. Insecurities are not necessarily sexual in nature, but they can often touch a relationship in such a way that affects everyone. Everyone can change and grow.
