It can be a struggle, trying to rationalize the internal butterflies against the logic of what makes sense on paper; especially when trying to decipher if the person you are involved with is ‘the one’.
Instinctively as humans, we go along with what feels good in the moment, clinging onto the high injected by our partner that teleports us into a euphoric state. Then as the level of the relationship matures, and the honeymoon phase fades, it can be an unwelcoming reality check to see if the relationship has what it takes to muster through the ups and downs.
It would be great for us all to meet the one that will make our heart stop, but the grim truth is we won’t all get that experience. Along our livelihood we will venture through relationships, some that will be short lived and others that will last for years. Regardless the length of time, each one offers invaluable lessons.
With each relationship seize the opportunity to realize something new about yourself, and try a new approach to life. Each person will prepare you in ways that you could not have realized before, and equip you to be ready for the right one to come your way.
What Would Simeon Do?
Love is no walk in the park, not all the time. It is a finicky thing, and it is not always mastered.
It requires an immense amount of reciprocation and mutual level of understanding to weather the storms. You must be willing and able to adopt and adapt to ever changing environments that may shift the dynamic of the relationship.
Love is very much like going to school, you are always learning the theory but you have to apply the lessons at home.
