It all started a very long time ago, well eleven years ago to be exact, when we as a married couple first really started to talk openly to each other about having an open marriage. And yes, I being a man, liked looking at porn on the computer and chatting online, I never tried to hide any of it from her, but she would just peek over my shoulder every now and then and make comments as to what I was looking at and or who I was chatting with. She would make comments at first, but then I started to notice that she would get a little upset as to why and what I got out of it. It took some time for her to say what she was feeling and basically she felt like I was not interested in her any more, which was not the case at all, and that is when I sat down with her and we talked.
We spent the rest of the evening just talking, I explained to her that looking at porn meant nothing and that was the god’s honest truth. It was more of that male fantasy thing that you know will never happen. All guys have one sort or another and if any say they do not, they are lying like a dog, just like they never grabbed a hold of the monkey and spanked it. And chatting online was just a way of meeting people from many different places and just making friends and that is all it ever was. I even told her that if she wanted to chat with others online or find sites that were for woman and look at pictures and so on that it would not bother me. I knew that she was there with me and not with someone else, and that I hoped she knew that I was there with her and not with anyone else.
Okay lets skip forward a little bit here, I do not want to make this in to a book, but over the course of time, she to had a few chat buddies, male and female and after a while she would get me involved in her chats and introduce me to the people she was chatting with as well as showing and telling me was being said. As we all know there are a lot of perverts online, yes some were very perverted, and tried to get her in to cyber sex and sending naked pictures of themselves and mainly of just that one part of a mans body part as well as asking for hers, which I might add neither of us had any way. But I must say she thought I was mad and getting upset and to her surprise I was not, I even had to convince her many times over that I was not and that I thought most of it was just funny to me to see how some of these guys really were and so hard up to get a woman.
But over time she learned to ignore these types and still make some friends chatting online. Then one day she called me over to the computer and showed me what was being said in the chat she was having with a guy that she had been chatting with for some time, it all seemed very respectful and like it was a very clean down to earth conversation at first that is, as she scrolled down to the point she called me over and showed me that the guy she was chatting with was asking her if I (her husband) would mind if she was to have cyber sex with him. Well at that point she looked at me said, “WHAT IS THAT!” I smiled and explained to her as quickly as I could and as best I could in the short amount of time that I was given and seeing as the chat was still in progress at the time, she was hesitant and a little nervous because she thought I would get mad or upset. When I told her to go for it if she really wanted to and that I was okay with it, I can honestly say she was shocked but she smiled and sent a message to hold on to her chat buddy and got up to get her toy, which was a just a regular dildo.
