Porn: Stimulating Your Self-Image

Quite frankly, I find the request for a $5 billion bailout for the porn industry to be hilarious. Like Larry Flynt and Joe Francis aren’t already getting enough of our hard-earned money? Or, perhaps (and much more likely) they believe that we, the general public, are too stupid to know how much dough they’re really raking in.

It’s a matter of public record that every second of every day sees almost 400 people conducting online searches for pornography, while over 28,000 people are already viewing it; in this same second, more than $3,000 dollars are being spent on it.

Other research has shown that the release rates of pornographic films as compared to mainstream productions are a shocking 20 to 1. An astonishing 55 percent of all movies rented in hotel rooms are pornographic in nature, even if they are only watched for an average of twelve minutes at a time (which in and of itself is fodder for an entirely different article). Obviously, men like Flynt and Francis need very little outside help to continue to enjoy their lucrative liaisons.

Of course, not every person on the planet watches porn, despite the $97 billion in annual, worldwide revenue. And of those that do indulge, only a portion will even admit to it, mostly because of the stigma that would surround such a confession. So often, and sometimes for our entire lives, we keep things a secret out of fear of what others will think of us. We all have our own little naughty indulgences that we prefer to keep private, and that’s okay. Particularly when our society is quick to judge its fellow man—and woman!

For me, I’m not afraid to say it: I watch porn. I enjoy—and have my own personal collection of—particular flavors of pornography. Adult films are simply one form of intimate entertainment that I share with my husband in our efforts to keep our sex life healthy. Even in years past, when I was a single woman, I was not at all averse to occasionally indulging in it alone. (This is a little tidbit my husband thoroughly enjoys being reminded of, so I just thought I’d toss that in there.)

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01.15.2009
Diva Ish
People have to take responsibility for their own actions and inner demons, if someone watches porn, becomes addicted and start doing crazy crap, that's because they were ALREADY that way in the first place. They just now have a venue. My hubby and i watch porn, together and by ourselves mostly when we are away from each other but still, we have phone sex, sometimes watching porn most times not. That's just us, it doesn't consume our lives it's not an everyday thing, it's just something we do from time to time. Don't like it don't look, if porn is destroying the fabric of america, then we were already doomed for not having a BRAIN of our own. Everytime some one does something they know is wrong, they want to blame something or someone else instead of taking responsibility for it. That's the way now adays, a kid kills someone blame tv and video games, don't blame the parents who show him murder movies and bys him Mature rated video games with no supervision. Get real people.
01.15.2009
Feathermaye
In my opinion, anything that could tickle the pleasure centers of our brain has the potential to be destructive. When combined with addictive personalities or psychological issues, the likelihood for extreme indulgences and/or detrimental effects on our lives is simply increased. This applies not only to pornography, but food, street drugs and, even in some cases, religion. Furthermore, I don't believe for a moment that the internet has "...expanded the demand..." of any type of pornography; it has simply made it more readily available. Fetishist demands and perversions existed long before the internet, and any increase in the demands for such simply speaks to the increase in our populations.
01.15.2009
Aduelley
Bill is right, sorry but that's the way it is. He doesn't have to be viewing hardcore things to know what exists. They talk about the negative effects of pornography and describe these things in college level classes. You don't have to watch the stuff to know it exists.
01.14.2009
cindylouwho1966
Bill, you obviously have been checking out some hardcore porn, because you describe waaaaaaay more explicit acts than this article does. How would someone know about ads for bestiality and kiddie porn on those websites if that person was not porn-hunting themselves? If you'd like to use your case as a warning about the dangers of becoming addicted to porn, that's fine-but state up front, "I have a problem with porn," don't act as if you are outraged, while you describe these gory details.
01.14.2009
Bill dill
What a lie! The selling and dissemination of pornography is the single most corrosive morla epidemic to hit the world in a long time. Its repercussions on the human psyche and our relationships unbelievably cancerous. Due to porn's Pavlovian nature it constantly raises the bar of intensity and depravity. Once your hooked you will never be satisfied with healthy sex again. As the internet has expanded the demand for pornography has been insatiable Child pornography has become commonplace bestiality fisting etc... Not pretty stuff but for the calloused porn viewer who has seen men and women defiled in every way imaginable they need the next level to get off. Look at any torrent site and you will see links to kiddie porn and bestiality. If you don't believe sex is a moral issue, don't worry, its only a matter of time before the world convinces you.
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