Okay, this may sound strange, but I too have fantasized recently about being with another woman. I just turned 40 and have been married for almost 20 years and have always been faithful. I love my hubby, we have a great sex life and I just am a bit curious!
It all started when I began to gather with a group of girlfriends. We have known each other for some time. Always with the kids around, the topic was always family stuff. But then we began to meet one night a week with no guys and just the group of us for a cocktail or two. At first we started chatting about the kids etc. but soon things turned to sex. The topic one night centered on being with another woman. I was like really shocked to find out I was the only one who had not ever done this experimenting in our group. One good friend confided in us that she had a girlfriend for two years before she married and had three kids! She has been married for 10 years! All the women insisting, it was great etc. etc. I was shocked to see I was the only one who had not been with a woman. Then I began to rethink things. I know am wondering what I may be missing. How much different it could be. I know I am not gay, but hell I am very curious! A few of my friends are now kind of encouraging me to check this thing out. Some have kind of sent me some signals.
On another note, I talked all of this over with my hubby seeing what he might make of all this. He pretty much said, you’re not gay, nor will you ever be. But, it is a continuum and you just want to have a little fun. He is actually okay with it he says. Do guys think differently about this stuff than women? I really could not handle my husband with a women or another guy. What should I do about this? Is this common among other woman?
