Can You Love Two?

I have been at this crossroad for about two years now.

I lived for almost six years with Mr. Right Guy (who has his defaults like everyone else), but I’ve recently met Mr. Adventurous Guy. The second one is always changing dates, a bit macho, very determined, and spoiled by mom and sisters. He thinks he’s the center universe for women, and normally he his. He’s not handsome but he’s very hot and very selfish.

I feel like living two different lives. I want to keep Mr. Right Guy but won’t mind to try the “legend” Mr. Macho Guy. Nothing has happened with Mr. Macho Guy yet, because I know deep down inside me that I’ll be just another one for him, and also because he knows Mr. Right Guy and there’s “a sort of code of honor between men” (his words to tease me). Meanwhile he tried several times to insinuate himself with no success, even if it’s hard for me to control my feelings.

I know Mr. Right Guy loves me and trusts me and I never been unfaithful to him, and don’t want to hurt him. Sometimes I really don’t know what to do because I miss the humor and teasing of Mr. Macho. What’s you’re advice? Thanks in advance.

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11.24.2007
Luz Catarineau
Although you might want the adventure in Mr. Macho it can only make a good relationship with Mr. Right go bad, that is if he is Mr. Right. I have from experience found that in order to get the adventure from my Mr. Right after 17 years was to teach him what I wanted. It took this long because we were always busy raising a family. After turning 40 last year I realized I wanted more and truly deserved more, especially after having some flirting action from someone else. The fear of the action getting me into trouble gave me the courage to ask for more and what a difference it has made. My husband appreciated the teaching lessons and our sex life is on the right track. I wonder every once in a while about the other but it only adds fuel when I get it on with my Mr. Right.
11.19.2007
Amanda Coggin
Sounds like Mr. Right Guy will might make you yawn and Mr. Macho Guy might make you squirm...I vote to be that what you want in the world and then wait for Mr. Gut to appear when you're ready.
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