Ten Reasons Men Cheat

Why men cheat on women is an age-old question. The reasons why men cheat on women can be varied. Nevertheless, we have compiled a list of the top ten reasons why both married and unmarried men cheat. Sometimes their reasons don’t even involve you and it’s simply an ego-based decision. Other times, reasons why men cheat can involve you and your relationship, or lack thereof.

So why do some men cheat in relationships? Almost all men know that cheating is wrong, yet many they still do it. Men will blame their reasons for cheating on their genes and their necessity to reproduce. However, aren’t we suppose to be further evolved than a chimp? Shouldn’t we be able to control our bodies through our minds and conscious decisions? Apparently not always.

Here are the top ten reasons why men cheat:

1. Because they had the option.
The old saying “men are only as faithful as their options” can sometimes ring true. Men don’t get offered sex as often as women so when the opportunity does arise, it can be very difficult for them to turn it down.

2. It boosts their ego.
Sometimes men no longer feel like they are attractive to the opposite sex and when a woman shows some interest, not only does a man react, he may allow her to stroke his ego and more. There is nothing like the thrill of the chase to men on the hunt. When they are finally rewarded for their efforts, their egos swell even larger.

3. You grow apart.
Maybe the two of you didn’t have as much in common as you thought. He’s met a woman who has more in common with him who loves football or plays golf. He may check out if he is compatible with her under the sheets also.

4. You argue a lot.
Men will sometimes cheat to get away from an overly critical or argumentative partner. Who wants to be around someone who is constantly on them about something.

5. They have fallen out of love.
Sometimes men become so comfortable in a relationship, they don’t know how to get out. They may be staying in the relationship because of children or financial reasons. However, they feel like they are missing out on love and may seek it out elsewhere. In their mind, this is as close to win-win as they can get.

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Wish I understood this cheating thing. Have sex everyday, so it's not sex. I am the bread winner so it's not dependency. Tried to make life comfortable for him, didn't work. I'm actually at the brink of divorce, guess I've had it. Cheated on him once cause he dared me and he nearly killed me but that didn't stop him from cheating. Cut my family off, didn't work. I've tried fasting, praying, ignoring him, didn't work. He's family members suggested black magic and I refused. Frankly I felt useless but right now I know better 'coz he's just not worth it. He doesn't deserve me , PERIOD. Not all men are like this though, I've got 2 brothers who will never hurt a woman like that and my father never cheated on my mom, she did the cheating by herself.
05.13.2011
Cindy Hill
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01.21.2011
hakuna matata
While I completely agree with most of the comments/reasons men cheat. However: I recently seen/heard of a different situation. For 10 yrs the wife neglected her husband sexually & emotionally. The husband had talks 3-4 times a yr letting the wife know how he needed his needs met. The wife either changed for a day or 2 or basically went on along ignoring the husband's needs, doing what she always had done. The both are avid Dr. Laura Sclessinger fans, listening to her radio show every day along with reading her books. All though the 10 yrs of neglect, the wife chose to say she didnt agree with Dr.Laura's idea about what men will do if you choose not to give them sex ect Now, she's found out, he's had an affair. She supposedly accepts ALL the blame, says she IS NOT angry about the affair because its ALL her fault. From 1day to the next she' s changed to the "woman he married 19 yrs ago". I question this but I would like to have some feedback on this type of situation.Any appreciated
06.08.2010
el mcleod
also that Steve Harvey book is just a good resource. Me and my lady read it in like a day together and we laughed and had a good time envisioning Steve Harvey teaching us the real. Also, with Allison Armstrong, my gf has been to a few of her seminars and we are planning to go to the couples seminar so we can get more empowered as a team, and also to sharpen our skills in the business of relationships. Think of a relationship with someone like a business contract. If you happen to get serious discuss the terms & conditions before hand, and if there is a breach in contract let the other person know when it happens so it may be less likely to happen again. also do your part and hold the other person accountable and try to hold their hand less and let them be themselves. that is the ingredients of a good relationship and a potential marriage. if you can't abide by that and COMPROMISE then all is lost ladies. thanks for reading Peace & Love
06.08.2010
el mcleod
2 of 3. your sex life has probably the most to do with it. If you aren't willing to do certain things then that can take a toll on a guy, and if the frequency lessens that really sucks. the last few reasons are kind of bs. revenge is a rare occasion. and a the thought of a different women is only "excitng and new" if you as a women are not being exciting and new to begin with. and getting too comfortable and unwilling to doll up for your man most of the time, like other "single" ladies do so they can get a man's attention. to see if you can get away with it is bs also. everyone doesn't think like that. I know when I did my cheating I wasn't even concerned about getting away with it, and trust me I was a big cheater. and ladies if you have allowed your man to cheat "in the past" you're just as guilty as he is. There is a really good book out there written by Steve Harvey. It gives the real on cheating. Please ladies pick it up. Be more communicative and also look for Alison Armstrong.
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