Can’t Find The G-Spot? You’re Not Alone: The Science of Sex

As much as I am inspired and impressed by modern medical and scientific advancements—nanotechnology, laparoscopic surgery, and genome sequencing to name a few—I’m also a bit shocked by the fact that we haven’t yet mastered some of the basics. Take human anatomy for instance. Yes, we’ve identified the twenty-six bones of the foot and the ventricles of the brain, but when it comes to deciphering the female urogenital tract, scientists are still at the drawing board. In fact, they have the same questions you might—does the G-spot exist, and if so, where the heck is it? Do women really have a prostate, and if so, can they ejaculate?

The Hotly Debated G-Spot
The G-spot, named after the gynecologist Ernest Gräfenberg, is an alleged erogenous zone located a few centimeters inside the vagina on the anterior wall. Its rise to popularity is usually attributed to the 1982 book, The G Spot and Other Recent Discoveries About Human Sexuality, co-authored by Beverley Whipple, a professor at Rutgers. Though the book describes how to find and stimulate this region, and sent intrepid women to try to locate theirs, it also gave the yet-to-be-classified area an almost mythical status—many have heard of it, and can generally describe what it’s supposed to do, but the majority haven’t actually seen its effects. Currently, there is no recognized part of the female anatomy labeled as the “G-spot.” In fact, researchers debate as to whether it exists at all. 

Part of the problem stems from the general lack of research into women’s sexual health, which has hampered the ability to make anatomic generalizations. A review published in the American Journal of Obstetrics and Gynecology in 2001 states “the evidence is far too weak to support the reality of the G-spot” and that “anecdotal observations and case studies based on a small number of subjects are not supported by anatomic and biochemical studies.”

Skeptics of the G-spot also contend there is no neural pathway to signify a physiologic mechanism. A study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine in 2006 took 101 vagina biopsy samples from twenty-one women and found that although nerves were located regularly throughout the vagina, there is no one location that has more nerve density than others, dispelling the notion of a single erogenous zone inside the vagina.

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02.28.2010
Charlene E
Ohhhhh....there definitely is a G-spot! A clitoral orgasm is great; however, a G-spot orgasm is mind blowing and affects every nerve fiber of the body. One of the best ways for a woman to achieve a G-spot orgasm is being on top facing her man.
02.25.2010
KISHORE DUDANI
iNTERESTING INFORMATION, WHICH NEEDS TO BE DESSIMINATED WIDELY.
02.25.2010
JOCELYN
That's why god invented the sex toy party! = http://tinyurl.com/girlsnight2
10.16.2008
PeggyEW
I have found that different women have such different sensitivities regarding their various erogenous zones, and at different levels of arousal, also! Maybe some women learn that everything has to be fast & hard in order to achieve orgasm, but for me, having it that way on my G-spot is usually too intense, especially right off the bat. So, if you don't get how some women say it feels so 'mind blowing', when it's just an irritant to you, try a different approach. For me, the time where I truly learned to recognize the sensations of my G-spot was through constant pressure on it, not so much 'back-and-forth' stimulation. My partner kept pressure on it with his finger while stimulating my clitoris. He could tell what type of clitoral stimulation was good for me (or if he was in the right place) by how the g-spot reacted against his finger, i.e., whether the area swelled or not. Learning to react to your G-spot is definitely a matter of conditioning, start simply & evolve into it.
10.09.2008
CJ
The reason most women don't experience ejaculation is that they are afraid to relax and let go and they are also apprehensive to talk to there partner and express what it is that makes them feel good. I feel a large number of men are "TOO MACHO" to allow the woman to feel pleasure. as long as they finish they do not care. It was not until I was about 46 when I experienced female ejaculation because I listened to my girl and found what makes her feel good and I did it. EXACTLY how she described. FYI The tip of the clit, and I mean the VERY TIP, is extremely sensitive and will drive her crazy if you know how to manipulate it. Women do not be afraid to let him know what you want and what makes you feel good and mean, don't be so STUPID as to not listen to her. If she feels good, you will "feel" even better
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