I am sure that a lot of us have come across this issue. Friends with a guy, become attracted, then Bam! You realize that there is a sexual attraction to one another. What to do? Well, I can say that nothing ever stays the same once that line is crossed. It must be a risk that you are willing to take. I don’t care how many people may think it, but that whole “cut buddy” scenario does not work—not at all. To me, sex is not just sex. My “special friend” and I had our friendship put to the test once we decided to cross that thin line. Personally, I would not have changed a single thing. Our relationship became more serious, we grew more respect for one another.
For myself, I often find myself getting caught up in the moment, then suddenly have to realize he is not my man. Damn, I hate that sometimes. My problem is that I get attached very easily. Although, I know that I am not the type of person that likes to share, so keeping this open was out of the equation. I love my friend dearly and I do not want to be without him. I really wish I had known what I was in for, then maybe I could have prepared for the emotions and anxiety that follow. Ladies, be very careful. It’s hard, as a woman you try not to invest to much time and very little emotion. It seems almost inevitable to not lose sight of the bigger picture. Maybe next time I will learn to say no instead of jumping head first.
