Ok, it’s finally time to admit, I’ve had it up to here with men. No, I’m not gay. However I am of the same sex and it just astounds me at how stupid and selfish our gender can be.
I’ve lost count at the number of times I’ve been out in public and either overheard (usually at a drinking establishment) or was told directly that “my wife/girlfriend won’t give me sex anymore.” This being said most often to the new girl that this Neanderthal is trying desperately to pick up on the barstool sitting next to him.
Have these guys even considered the thought that maybe, just maybe, his other half is holding out on him because he’s a rotten lover? I mean come on, how many times does it take for a woman to lie there fully expecting to be pleasured but after thirty seconds of grunting and groaning Johnny Wadd rolls off and promptly goes to sleep while his better half stares up at the ceiling wondering what the hell just happened?
This only has to occur four to five times before the woman thinks to herself, “What’s in it for me?” A healthy relationship is supposed to be fifty-fifty. But if one side is always getting pleasured and the other is not it doesn’t take long for one side to stop trying any longer.
So men (mostly married) continually perpetuate the vicious cycle by trying to plead their case to an unwitting new target. Not even having a clue that the problem originally manifested itself because of their own selfishness and lack of understanding in what it takes to keep the women we love happy.
