Whether you’re single and looking for the right partner, or in a relationship and want to deepen your love and create more sizzle, then the first place to start is in the bedroom. Applying a few simple Feng Shui tips can take you from single to sizzle!
Someone once asked me, “From a Feng Shui perspective what do you think it means if I sleep on the couch and my dog sleeps in my bed?” And I said, “When was the last time you were in a committed relationship?” He replied by rolling his eyes. So I said, “No pun intended but I think that means that you’re literally in the dog’s house” and he said, “But I’m more comfy on the couch,” and I said, “Yes, and I’m sure the dog feels the same way about your bed.”
Although that may seem like an extreme example of an environment that is not conducive for attracting a partner, or harnessing the flow of passion, I can’t tell you how many bedrooms I’ve walked through and how many people I have met where the blocks to romantic bliss are as much rooted in the physical space as they are in their minds.
I want you to start looking at everything in your bedroom as potentially keeping you in or out of the relationship you desire. Everything is energy. Our thoughts, feelings and unconscious beliefs get imprinted into the spaces we spend the most time in.
When your bedroom is draining your chi then there may be things that are detracting from:
The Three R’s of Outstanding Bedroom Feng Shui:
1. Resting
2. Romancing
3. Rejuvenating
Ideally, these are the only three things you should be doing in your bedroom.
Here are fifteen tips to help you Convert a Bedroom Blunder into a Heart-Centered Wonder!
1. If it’s broken, then fix it! If you want things to work in the bedroom, then make sure everything literally works in the bedroom: doors, drawers, lamps, etc. Broken items literally drain your energy and communicate that something isn’t working in the relationship. Are the lights always out?
