If you found out your man was lying to you a few times, do you continue to believe everything he may say when you question him about particular things? Or do you automatically think he’s just lying again?
How is one to know if he’s telling the truth when you know he’s lied to you before?
Usually, when a woman cheats on her man, it is for emotional comfort or revenge. Men usually cheat for various reasons and no one can usually pinpoint the reason unless they really examine the relationship dynamics. But a woman is more likely to admit to the cheating and try to better the relationship, while the man will deny everything till his death?
This leaves a woman at a disadvantage because she admitted and is now on the “block to watch.” For her man to trust her again, everything will be watched, her actions, her calls, etc. If she knows it or not, her man will be watching her.
When arguments happen, he has the possibility to blow it up in her face that she was the one that strayed, not him. Well, of course, not him ... no one has caught him yet. Or maybe if he is innocent, he doesn’t seem to understand why she strayed in the first place. So both of them are no better than they were before.
So to go back to the lying issue, how is a woman to trust a liar? I believe women are more emotional and more likely to analyze every conversation after the conversation for days on end, to see what they missed during the actual conversation. But since the woman is usually asked to drop the conversation, get over it right away and not to bring it up again ... because men dont like to fight. The woman is again left at a disadvantage. Now if she brings it up again … she is looking for a fight, or being a “witch with a B.”
I know there are many women out there that feel the same way I do. So I have come to the conclusion that the government should just offer free therapy to every woman in a relationship because most of us need a therapist because the men we love drive us insane!
