Always Aroused, but Never Relieved

Recently, I read an Esquire article written by a woman who claimed to be perpetually aroused. Rather than enjoying her revved up libido, she described it as more of a nuisance. (“My whole vagina felt like a pressure cooker about to go off any minute—but it wouldn’t.”) Although there was reference to a medical condition—persistent sexual arousal syndrome—my first suspicion was that the article was a hoax, fabricated by a male writer who wanted his fantasy girl to come alive, at least on page. Less likely, but still plausible, was that maybe this was just one horny girl—the high school slut, the housewife who stands a little too long next to the washing machine on spin cycle. Whatever her affliction, certainly it couldn’t be any different from those masses of men who masturbate four to five times a day to Penthouse, Hustler, and other assorted whack rags. Or could it?

There actually is something called persistent sexual arousal syndrome (PSAS), and though it has surely existed as long as men have had priapism (painful, persistent erection of the penis), it wasn’t documented in clinical literature until 2001. The condition is thought to be extremely rare and, because of its intimate, anomalous nature, underreported.

Though the Esquire article describes the condition as a “burning desire to masturbate,” lack of sexual desire and interest is actually more like it. Afflicted women are not hypersexual or nymphomaniacs; instead they are plagued by spontaneous, intrusive, and unwanted genital arousal that never seems to cease.

A woman can relieve herself by having an orgasm, but not for long. The feeling persists, and can be an uncomfortable nuisance that disrupts work, relationships, and daily activities. The feeling of arousal can last for days or even years, resulting in serious personal distress. Various medications, including anti-depressants and hormonal therapy, have been used to try to treat PSAS, but currently there is no standard of care. This is because no one really knows what causes or triggers PSAS. Some women’s symptoms appear after discontinuing SSRIs (selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors), a type of anti-depressant; others have been triggered by stress, or a brain injury.

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01.19.2009
doublepow
At least women don't have to worry about it showing.
11.20.2008
Lindsey
I honestly believe that I have this problem. I can have sex, and then less than a minute after I orgasm, I feel completely unsatisfied again. I have burst into tears over this, because I know it isn't quite normal. It's not pleasant, it's absolutely painful. I am afraid to move sometimes or even do something such as use the bathroom, because even the slightest movement can set off the feeling. I was on anti-depressants for a while, but they made me incredibly depressed so I had to get off of them. Well, once they stopped, the constant arousal slowly came back. Now it's just as bad as it used to be. I don't really feel comfortable bringing this up with a doctor, but at least now I know I am not the only one who has to live with this. If they ever find a remedy for this problem, I'm definitely heading to my doctor ASAP. Even if I am completely turned off, doing something like vacuuming, the sensation is there. It is horrible.
06.19.2008
Sherri North
I read your story (I posted one of my own) and I have a similar problem if you would call it so. I can have an orgasm and feel satisfied but within a very small amount of time I can feel randy as if I have been without for weeks. If my jeans are tight and I go with out panties I become very aroused. So much so I have to do something. I enjoy sex very very much I have thought I am odd.
There is a name for everything isn't there. Your sexual feelings I have read are one of the strongest feelings one can have. ...and its as natural as ones feeling for hunger..Now I do believe some can decrease it by trying to ignore it and so get in the habit of doing so. Its like sex, when one has sex its like turning on a tap, you then want it regularly. If one is feeling that way and masturbates it eases the urge, and it may interfere with your relationship yes. But surely a woman alone can take the matter in hand if she has no lover. Whether it satisfies you only a bit or totally it is different, but to say its a curse to be feeling always sexy, I strongly disagree. I'd rather be too sexy(desiring sex) than not feel at all.
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