Love and Sex (Part 4)

Male Anatomy: How to use it properly!
This is going to be real simple—stop using your penis like it’s some sort of jackhammer! Dedicate to paying close attention to your woman’s responses as you push in deeper than four inches! Only push in four inches, or more if privy, after you have stroked the g-spot for ten minutes or longer, and you notice she’s moaning quite uncontrollably, and wet as can be! Lastly, save all violent type motions for the outward movement, never thrust forward into her violently!

To stimulate the G-spot, you want to use the “penile ridge,” located at the back of the penile head!

The Stroke
Having denounced the typical bangers method of sex earlier, (bang, bang, bang- harder faster deeper!), I’m now going to explain the proper stroke that brings a woman to orgasm! In the proper stroke, it’s about three principles. Depth, (how deep the insertion), angle, (the angle is upward toward the g-spot) and motion, (in slow, out fast)! As a rule once you’re in the vaginal opening you want to go in about two to three inches only and work your stroke from this point outward. In other words, stay close to the opening using shallow strokes instead of going in deep! Resist the impulse to push in deep, and wait for her body to respond!

Keep your focus on her G-Spot and use your penile ridge to pull back against it. Meanwhile maintain contact between her pelvis/clitoris and your pelvis. Slide up and down her body instead of the typical in and out stroke. The goal, remember is to make her come, so use your penis like a finger and motion accordingly. Curious that making a woman say, “I’m about to cum,” and making her come, would involve a movement that exemplifies the words and outcome isn’t it? More amazing is the fact that the penis is shaped to do exactly that when circumcised! The penile ridge is absolutely perfect to rub against the g-spot inside a woman!

When you stroke with your primary focus being to caress the g-spot, and your secondary thought being to maintain contact, i.e. your pelvis, on her clitoris, and labia, you must move your penis in slow and out fast! You may even jerk your hips (with force) outward, but never push inward with force! Think in slow and shallow, out fast! More to the point, while using an outward, pulling stroke, use your penis to work the air out of the vagina, it helps if you think of your penis as a finger saying cum here! On your outward stroke, stay in contact with the g-spot using the hind ridge of your penis! I can’t over-emphasize this point enough! The G-spot is a woman’s trigger point, which causes the vagina to fully activate! Consequently, a byproduct of this stroke motion is a tightening of the vaginal orifice due to the removal of air!

The Uterus
Until recently, as concerns sex, there was very little premise placed on the cervix and/or uterus. However, once again science is going to have to re-examine what’s really occurring inside a woman’s vagina during intercourse! The uterus is very active when a woman is stimulated correctly. In fact it extends down and has been known, if the woman is already pregnant, to spray an ammonia like substance to ward off any additional seminal intruders. Consequently, it has the ability to open and accommodate the insertion of the penis! That said the inner walls of the uterus are very sensitive, and upon entry, bring the woman to extraordinary heights of climactic pleasure!

Now that you know your woman’s “inner switch,” it’s necessary for you to understand a few things. One, you will need to be committed to focusing on her, and not you! Typically, men focus on the sensations they feel in the penis, however, to really please your woman, you will need to focus, and pay strict attention to her feelings, in her vagina! By this, I mean listening to her moans, and being aware, where you made contact inside her, when she moaned! As you stroke, you must put aside what her vagina is doing to you, and believe me it’s going to be very active! Number two, you’re going to need to practice a desensitizing exercise prior to “turning her switch on,” this exercise will be described in great length in my next book, Passion Found.

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01.09.2010
Anna Lasker
Wow. Thanks, you're so dead on. I am pretty sick of the go-to form for men being the jackhammer, and am planning on showing this to my man so it can reiterate what I have obviously failed to make stick on my own.
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