Ladies and gentlemen, sex isn’t the old in and out anymore. This is year 2010 and sex with a partner in a monogamist relationship can be more fun than ever!
What’s In: Pleasing your partner in a positive loving way!
What’s Out: Standard bedroom relations!
Do you have a fantasy that you haven’t fulfilled, and are you willing to let your guard down? These are the things that I asked my self this last lover’s holiday. The famed Valentines day! I have been with my fiancé for seven fantastic years and this Valentines day I decided to add some sugar and spice to our sexual relationship. Valentines Day is also our anniversary, and I was brainstorming for weeks about what I could give to my guy to show him how much I love him and also to show him how much I truly enjoy pleasuring him. Now let me also add that we both are deeply in love with each other and we aren’t the jealous type.
So this year I decided to think out of the box and I made a sexy gift package with all kinds of lubricants, vibrators, dildos, DVDs, books and much, much more. I decided to share my story with everyone because I want to let all the women and men out there know that “sex toys” are a fun very rewarding way to connect on a deeper level. I’m not just talking about physically deep! Emotionally I feel more connected to my guy and he has said the same to me. These “toys” have helped us communicate to each other what feels good for both of us, which results in the biggest “o” and keeps getting better. I have never seen a porn movie or used a sex toy of any kind prior to giving this gift and those films have helped us find exciting new positions and ideas for our own escapades.
Please remember that it’s ok to feel shy about taking a step in this direction, giving and receiving love and pleasure can only bring you closer. Now forget the standard in and out missionary style, and try a new experience.
