Natural Childbirth – It’s Not About You, It’s About Your Baby

Moms make all sorts of sacrifices when they’re pregnant to protect their babies. Many stop smoking. We all stop drinking! We limit caffeine and get headaches. We avoid medications and toxic fumes. But when it comes to giving birth, we still think it’s okay to be a little selfish.

A few points:

  • All drugs reach the baby. Don’t kid yourself—if drinking during pregnancy is bad, why isn’t painkillers via an IV?
  • Babies born to moms who use painkilling drugs are more likely to experience health problems including jaundice, sucking/breastfeeding difficulties, breathing difficulties, and fever.
  • Babies are more likely to need painful or needless medical intervention (such as spinal tap for fever).
  • Moms who birth naturally recover faster, have less postpartum depression, and are much less likely to have C-sections and experience the health risks that go along with them.
  • Drugs in labor contribute to the “slippery slope” of intervention that begins with inducement with Pitocin (which causes unnatural contractions, potential for fetal distress, drop in maternal heart rate, etc.), which brings about a need for painkilling medication, which brings on other problems, and ends with a C-section created by the interventions themselves.

Natural childbirth isn’t about you ... it’s about your baby. It’s not about being a “strong” woman or a “brave” or “empowered” one. It’s about making another choice that’s in the best interest of the helpless infant growing inside you.

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02.03.2009
JustJill
I have to disagree a bit. I went into my first birth with no intention of accepting any medical or pharmaceutical intervention of any kind. When 20 hours passed after my water broke and I spiked a fever (indicating potentially harmful infection) with no progress dilating, I was offered pitocin and an epidural since I'd have to have an IV put in to receive antibiotics. I accepted the pitocin after realizing that if my fever remained with no progress dilating, I'd need a c-section to protect my daughter from infection. After 3 hours of pitocin contractions with minimal progress, I requested an epidural. Within 2 hours I had relaxed enough to dilate the remaining 7 cm. I firmly believe that the intervention I was offered and accepted saved me from an emergency c-section. I did not feel robbed. I felt fortunate to have the medical assistance I needed. I was able to go into the birth of my son 2 years later with an open mind. Enabling me to have a safe and fulfilling birt
11.14.2008
Lauren Cosby
I disagree also. Pregnancy complications can happen with or without painkilling medications. I refuse to believe one can carry a baby for almost 10 months and take precautions and the doctors would wait until moments or hours before one gives birth to give them something that could harm the baby. Wheres the basis for this? One would have to research every birth method and every birth to determine somethinmg like that. Pregnancy is and always has been different for everyone. Everyone has different preferences & side effects, but I think I would have been horrified if my I hadnt had an epidural. I dont ever intend to give birth naturally by choice, but I wouldnt tell anyone else it wasnt okay or it was unhealthy just because it isnt the method I prefer. Not to mention my daughter was breastfed right away and had no devlopmental or major health issues. I just think it's unfair to blame the epidural for problems that may arise with a child whether the mother chose to have it or not.
10.22.2008
Adria Borchert
I agree with your article 100%. People ask me if I will be getting an epidural and when I say no the reactions vary from Wow you some kind of superhuman to Wow your nuts. I didn't with my first and felt great afterwards so why would I with this one?
09.10.2008
Meagan
I very much agree with all you say. I did a lot of reading during my first pregnancy and all your conclusions represent the statistics I found. I planned for a natural birth and was fortunate enough to have a successful one. It lasted 16 hours with 4 hours of pushing. It was the hardest and most rewarding thing I've ever done. I felt it was the best decision I could make for my baby and I still believe it is...that's why I'm about to go for natural birth #2. Is it comfortable? Absolutely not. But I feel it gave my child the best possible entry into this world and as an added bonus, it gave me confidence in myself, making me realize I can handle far more than I ever expected. Birth is painful. For it to be without pain is unnatural. Now, I know in some cases medications and procedures are necessary, but in the vast majority, focus and determination would go a long ways.
09.06.2008
Nicole
I disagree as well. How far has medicine come? Our doctors take so many precautions through our pregnancies with tons of different tests, prenatal vitamins, and many visits. Do you really think that the medical profession as a whole would so often give this medicine to women that would have a high risk of hurting their babies? I have had 3 successful deliveries all with epidurals! My thought is "Passing on a pain killer that could make your delivery so much easier and enjoyable is like going to the dentist and asking to do it without novocaine."
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