Rock-a-Bye Baby: Does Sleep Training Work?

For new parents running on fumes, the quick fix a sleep-training professional offers can far outweigh the cost. Alyssa Maher, who has a five-month-old daughter, has firsthand experience with the wonders of sleep consultants. “For the first four months of my daughter’s life, I had a terrible time getting her to take naps and sleep through the night,” she recalls. “I finally became so desperate that I hired a sleep consultant, and she worked wonders right away. The night after her first visit, my baby slept from 7 p.m. to 7 a.m. without waking up once, and she’s continued to get at least ten hours of uninterrupted sleep each night since then. At first, I couldn’t believe I was actually paying someone to help me, but it was worth every penny in the long run.” 

Nighttime Is the Right Time
According to the National Sleep Foundation, 70 percent of all babies sleep through the night by the time they’re nine months old, even if they haven’t been “Ferberized.” But if that feels like an eternity to you when your four-month-old is keeping you up for hours on end, there are abundant resources available to guide you through the sleep-training process—and if the experts are correct, the odds are good that your entire household will be slumbering harmoniously within a relatively short period of time. And when you’re having a moment of weakness as you listen to your infant screaming from his crib, just remember: suffering through a few days of wearing earplugs is a small price to pay for a future full of restful nights.

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01.04.2010
Alexa Dove
If you use this method you will TRAUMATIZE your child. The "crying it out" method causes BRAIN DAMAGE! This is not the natural tribal way that humans are to be brought up! First of all, babies should not be in cribs at all because they are not psychologically ready to handle being alone! If you do not respond to your baby's cries they will have unresolved emotional issues. The reason why mothers automatically respond to their baby's cries is because it's INGRAINED by human nature! The reason why babies cry at night in the first place is because they were subjected to a horrifically traumatizing hospital birth where they were not respected . Please, mothers! Take care of and LOVE your children! Respond to its needs! The future of humanity rests on how loving and caring we can be towards our next generation. Please see: http://drmomma.blogspot.com/2009/12/dangers‐of‐leaving‐baby‐to‐cry‐it‐out.html http://drmomma.blogspot.com/2009/12/crying‐it‐out‐causes‐brain‐damage.html
11.10.2009
lark mackenzie
"...Ferber insists that’s precisely what they need to do in order to break the cycle of giving and dependence that they’ve initiated with their child. " This statement is insane. They initiated a cycle of giving and dependence the moment they became pregnant. Babies cry for a reason. When a baby is crying because they want to be held it is not a "want", it is a "need". How much sleep a parent gets is irrelevant, if you need more help, have family or friends help out so you can nap. But it is barbaric to expect a 4, 5, or 6 month old baby to rationalize why they are left alone to cry. They have the rest of their lives to be independent and self-soothing, and building a relationship of trust with your baby where they always know that you will come when they cry will only make them more relaxed and secure. When they are toddlers they are more willing to try new things when they have parents that they can trust will always be there to support them.
11.10.2009
Bijani Mizell
What a fantastic idea! Although I don't have kids, I've been worried about the lack of sleep infants inevitably cause their parents ... but the reasoning behind this theory makes total sense. All kids need weaning from their parents, so best to start it early!
11.10.2009
Paul Fraser
When we had our first child, the doctor said that if you want to avoid problems ignore your child when it cries the first night and you will avoid trouble in the future. He said feed the baby at about 11 or 11:30 and then again in the morning when he wakes up about 7 or 8. We followed these instructions and it worked. The first night the baby cried quite a bit and I had to literally hold my wife down so tha she would not respond. I kept reminding her what the doctor said. Eventually the baby fell asleep and woke up about 7. The second night the baby cried much less, maybe about 10 minutes and then fell asleep. After that the baby would wimper a few minutes and then fall asleep. After a few days the baby would sleep all night without any problem. It really was a miracle and I recommend it to everyone. By the way we did the same thing with our second child with the same outcome. They are both grown up with their own families and doing very well
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