Anxiety: What’s Normal and What’s Not?

Angela is a forty-eight year old woman who entered therapy due to her anxiety related to driving a car. The anxiety became so severe that for two months, her husband had to drive with her to and from work each day to avoid a possible panic attack behind the wheel. Since he worked in the opposite direction, this was highly inconvenient and began to create stress in their marriage. It was this stress that compelled Angela to seek treatment.

Angela entered therapy highly motivated to fix her problem with anxiety. In treatment, she revealed that driving was not the only time she experienced high anxiety. These feelings were present during other times in her life. She often felt anxious at work and at home “for no apparent reason” when randomly with family, friends, or alone. The anxiety would strike during different times of the day and did not seem to be connected with a particular situation or triggering event. In other words, there was no pattern that she could determine as an underlying cause of her distress.

Angela did have a past history of anxiety, although the symptoms were not nearly as severe. She vividly recalled that in both high school and college she felt “flashes of anxiety,” but stated that the feelings would pass rather quickly and never caused her dysfunction. There was only one time in her life that she remembered her anxiety being so severe that she became immobilized. In her second year of law school, Angela was chosen to argue a case in front of a guest speaker. She had done this on other occasions with no problem, but on this occasion, she was hit so hard with anxiety that she could not even get out of bed.

Most people will experience a certain level of anxiety in their lifetime. Anxiety is an unpleasant emotional state that includes fear, apprehension, and worry. In its milder forms, it can be a motivator for action, an indicator for change in the person’s life, or a sign of stress or impending danger. It is temporary and the person returns to their normal level of functioning and emotional comfort quickly.

When anxiety symptoms are more severe however, they are chronic and highly overwelming to the person experiencing them. So much so, that this type of anxiety can immobilize a person and interfere with their daily funcioning, as in Angela’s case. Physical symptoms such as heart palpitations, nausea, dizziness, chest pain, shortness of breath, and profuse sweating often accompany the feelings of anxiety. These symptoms, among others, indicate that the person is experiencing a panic attack. Panic attacks come on suddenly and usually last less than ten minutes. However, they are so intense and frightening that most people who experience them believe they are going to die. Panic attacks are commonly mistaken for heart attacks since the symptoms are highly similar and can overlap. Panic attacks cause the person to feel highly vulnerable and very much out of control leading to even greater distress and often more panic attacks.

Millions of Americans suffer from anxiety disorders each year. An estimated forty million adults (age eighteen and older) are affected in the U.S. alone making anxiety disorders the most common mental illness in America. Fortunately, anxiety disorders are treatable and the vast majority of people inflicted can successfully diminish their discomfort with the help of the right professional care.

Research illustrates that psychotherapy (in particular cognitive-behavioral therapy) either alone or in combination with psychopharmacology (medication) is the most effective treatment for anxiety. Since every person is different, there are no guarantees for success; however, outcome studies prove highly hopeful.

I highly encourage any person who is struggling with anxiety to seek professional help. Unfortunately, many people suffering do not. When speaking with these patients about their reasons for not seeking help, the most common response has been “I thought the feeling would pass” or “I thought I could deal with it on my own.” This makes sense since anxiety is usually first experienced in childhood and normalized by parents, teachers, and friends and therefore, does not seem out of the ordinary.

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11.08.2007
Zorra
I stared having panic attacks when I was 22 yrs old. I am now 57. They came out of the clear blue sky while on the freeway and I thought I was dying. I couldn't catch my breath. The only thing on my mind was to get off the freeway before I would pass out and hurt someone. My 3 yr old daughter was in the back seat which made matters worse. Afer while I couldn't go anywhere with out having an attack. It took a few years to get to the point where I could. My doctor had put me on Meprobamate. which helped. After while I able to do most things except drive on the freeway. Years later, I stopped taking the meds, per my doctor. My attacks returned, just as bad. IMy doctor at the time told me that I would just have to live with it. That' was like a death sentence I now have a great doctor who gave me new meds, Lexapro, Ativan and Wellbrutrin. I am much better and can even drive on the freeway after all these years. My panic attacks are all but gone now.
11.07.2007
Laurie Fischer
I'm 50 and a couple years ago, I started having some unexpected anxiety with regards to driving over bridges and on ramps and walking across ramps that cross roads. It can be debilitating and feels like you are having a heart attack. This year, I won a trip to Disney (I'm a Mary Kay consultant and it was a prize from my director for reaching a goal) and knew that I'd have to fly. I had never flown before because of my fear of heights, etc. So I spoke with my doctor about it and she prescribed Buspar for my anxiety in driving/bridges, etc. and it works quickly and helps quite a bit. She also prescribed Lorazpan for flying and I came back from my trip a week ago. The Buspar really helped calm me and alleviated some of my anxiety about traveling and just prior to getting on the plane both times I took 1/2 of a Lorazapan. It did the trick! My doctor also noted that a number of women experience anxiety as they age due to changes in hormones. See your doctor and overcome your fears.
07.27.2007
Katie Dreamer
Hi. I have just realized that I too have Anxiety. I am also being treated for change of Life......which I believe to be connected to Mania/Depression. My Doctor did not diagnose it as far as I know. I have not checked my file, so I cannot say for sure. I am on the medication Wellbutrin for treatment. She also recommended that I see someone to get further into the problem. I have had several panic attacks which I worked myself through without telling anyone about them. The change of Life thing got to me though as I was low on seretonin, which the Doctor realized. I am exercising more which helps tremendously. Just wanted to let you know that I am glad to find out more about anxiety. I will talk to my Doctor soon about this and see what she will tell me to do next. I want to have a normal Life. At least as normal as "normal" can be. I now have a medication that I take whenever I get "panicked". Sometimes I need to take it to deal with things my husband says. Thanks again. Katie in Ia.
07.26.2007
Tracy Michaels
I have suffered with road anxiety for twenty years. I suffered two sudden deaths within 8 months of each other, my mother and only brother. I've done much research and have applied many visualization methods and have researched EMDR as another good resource. But, I have never been comfortable on the freeway systems since. I simply never drive them. Fast speed and traffic seem to raise the levels of claustrophobia. Driving around town does not seem to trigger anxiety unless I am unfamiliar with a road, but once I become comfortable, I can drive it without too much trouble. The sad part of this anxiety is that your world can become very small. I have no anxiety at any other time, just behind the wheel. Though I have never experienced the level of physical symptoms many do, as your peice outlines, panic and anxiety really do change your life. I wish us all well.
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