The Skinny on Global Body Images

America’s on a yo-yo diet and it’s ugly. It seems there isn’t much of a happy medium between all-you-can-eat buffet lovers with bursting bellies and image-obsessed scale jumpers who dip leaves into a drop of balsamic vinegar and call it a meal.

We are an obese nation with a high rate of eating disorders. Our schizophrenia hit home the other week when two teachers at my son’s daycare, weighing in for an employee “biggest loser” competition modeled after the reality television show, cooed over his ample thighs and told me they hope I have a “fat little baby girl” one day.

We’re confused, we’re too fat, and we’re too image-obsessed. We’ve got it all wrong, so I decided to look into what is going on in other regions of the world—from Tonga to Toulouse, France. There are some inspirational examples, and some scary ones, too.

Spain—Power to the Pear-Shaped
The Spanish government recently measured the bodies of more than 10,000 women to help create new guidelines for the clothing industry. The government is trying to promote a healthy body image and recalibrate current sizes, which are based on pre-1975 models. According to a WeNews story, the study concluded “that Spanish women come in three basic shapes—hourglass, pear, and barrel—which consumer advocates say should serve as a more accurate base for sizing.” It’s not rocket science, but it’s a step in the right direction.

France—Crack Down on Skinny
The French parliament is working on a bill that would levy fines and possible prison sentences on those who encourage “extreme thinness.” Wonder what the French prisons will look like if that bill comes to fruition …

Tonga—Size XXL Rules
Being fat is a status symbol in Tonga (an archipelago in the South Pacific) where reports show that more than 90 percent of the people are overweight. Tonga is starting to advertise itself to the larger world as a place where plus-size travelers can come to feel skinny.

Nigeria—Fattening Rooms
According to BBC News, rich Nigerians sometimes pay to visit “fattening rooms” to pack on the pounds. The news report describes a fattening room in the city of Calabar as a place where patrons can eat, sleep, and—well, that’s about it.

Mauritania—Wife-Plumping Farms
Although the trend of force-feeding young Mauritanian girls is on the decline, a BBC News report says about 11 percent of young girls there are still force fed in order to catch a husband. Says the director of a fat farm: “When they are small they don’t understand, but when they grow up, they are fat and beautiful. They are proud and show off their good size to make men dribble. Don’t you think that’s good?”

Italy—Arrivederci to Emaciated Models
The Italian government has helped push guidelines on the age and weight of models. There was initially some resistance among Milanese fashion houses, but they eventually realized that beauty is broader than bones.

New Zealand—Fat Immigrants Not Welcome
According to the New Zealand Press Association, an Englishman with a body mass index of forty-two was denied entrance by immigration officials. He didn’t pass the government’s new fat test.

Hollywood—That Foreign Land
Jennifer Love Hewitt, after being photographed in a bikini and scrutinized for her non-anorexic curves, blogged: “A size 2 is not fat! Nor will it ever be. And being a size 0 doesn’t make you beautiful. I love my body. … To all girls with butts, boobs, hips and a waist, put on a bikini—put it on and stay strong.”

 
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02.28.2011
Jenna girl
I am skinny and I have trouble gaining weight. Countries shouldn't crack down on skinny people. It is wrong.
03.24.2010
Luisa Zajko
They aren't force-feeding girls. They value size, just as we do, but in a different direction. Fattening rooms and such are offered, but not obligatory... just like in our culture, we overdose on plastic surgery, botox, body wraps, gym memberships, and infomercials to shed every ounce of water weight and cellulite. I'm not saying one is better than the other - fit and healthy will never be attained by all of us, which doesn't mean we should abandon striving for healthy and HAPPY - but I am saying that using a size range of 2-6 as the prototype for the ideal average person is obtuse and ignorant.
11.10.2009
WhosThatGirl
I, myself, am just now learning to "attempt" to love my curves...and I am a size 4/6. I guess what it boils down to is a) are you healthy, and b) do YOU love your body? I worked out with insane regularity for years, got very thin, and then was forced to get a full-time job (I got divorced), and suddenly between work and taking care of my child, I had no TIME to work out. In addition to that, my boyfriend prefers a little extra meat on the bones, so I had to make a choice: do I continue to obsess about my body and being thin, or do I admit that I'm going to change shape because of my circumstances and learn to love my curves as much as my boyfriend does? So far, I've had a bit of luck. I look at women with hips and thighs and breasts and love their shape more than the shape of a woman who is very thin...before it was the opposite. So, I guess what I'm ultimately trying to say is loving your body, no matter WHAT size you are, is a choice. Sometimes it works for me.....sometimes.
03.15.2009
Daniel Guzy
We're definitely a culture that is too obsessed with self image. I'm overweight, have been since I was 10. I peaked at 320 lbs when I was 23 years old (nearly 10 years ago after a workers comp knee surgery), now I'm 255 lbs. I've been hounded like crazy by family members and co-workers for being overweight since I was a boy. It took an emotional toll on me for many years and made me eat more, not less, until I learned to fight back. I started to say: "Yes, I'm heavy and I don't mind. Sure, I'd like to lose a few pounds. If I do, great. If I don't, no big deal. If you don't like it, that is your problem, not mine. Quit projecting your image issues onto me. It's not that big of a deal" It worked, I'm happier, healthier, and less stressed. Some days I eat heavier, other days I eat healthier. I no longer beat myself up about it either way. Big, skinny, Who Cares? Happiness and self confidence is what should trully matter. True beauty comes from the inside out, not the other way around.
02.04.2009
Sammy_Sam
love it!! Oh and for the guys, be wutever size u wish 2 be! but i would personally rather NOT hav a skinny man. Dont have 2 b muscular at all; he can be plus or somewut muscular. but NOT skinny!!!
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