Dear Diary: Is Keeping a Journal for Everyone?

As a writer, I’ve always felt a little guilty about the fact that I don’t keep a journal. It’s not for lack of trying; I’ve filled countless notebooks with my daily thoughts but have never chronicled more than a week’s worth of events. I just haven’t found much therapeutic benefit to it—why write down, and subsequently focus even more on, issues that cloud my mind already? I lamented my lack of journaling to my friend Devita (not her real name) recently, and her response surprised me: she said that according to some therapists, journaling isn’t the best idea for everyone. As this went against everything I’d heard and read about diaries, I had to investigate further. 

It turns out that for some people, keeping a diary can be a negative experience. One study in the UK even linked it to increased health problems. But after I consulted with licensed marriage and family therapist (MFT) Sandy Roos, it became clear that journaling itself isn’t the problem—it’s the specific kind of diaries we keep that determine their efficacy. 

The Downside of Diaries
In 2004, researchers at Glasgow Caledonian University conducted a study to test the potential health effects of diary keeping by comparing ninety-four people who frequently wrote in journals with forty-one people who never did. The diarists were asked specifically about what sorts of things they wrote about and how often, and all of the volunteers filled out questionnaires about their physical well-being. Those who kept journals tended to have more headaches, stomach problems, and social-anxiety issues than their peers. The numbers increased the more often diarists wrote about traumatic episodes. The researchers couldn’t determine whether keeping diaries encouraged health problems or vice versa, but one thing’s for sure: writing too much about the bad stuff isn’t good for us. 

Sandy Roos usually finds that her clients benefit from journaling and recommends it to them, but she also recognizes that not everybody’s ready for that kind of emotional release. “If I assess that they don’t have enough ego strength—they’re in crisis, suffering untreated depression, have undergone trauma, or have zero social support—I would wait until they’re stabilized and able to tolerate some of the feelings that might come up,” she explains. But as for physical ailments resulting from journaling, she feels that a long-term study to reexamine the findings might be necessary. “Sometimes short-term effects in studies change over time,” she says. “Most of the studies I’ve heard about have found that journaling is very positive.” 

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Oddly enough the only time in my life when I religiously kept a journal was when I was living in Spain ... I wrote EVERY SINGLE DAY for an entire year. It was also the happiest year of my life. For me it's easier to write about the good stuff then complain about the bad stuff.
I can say with absolute certainty that I've never been a constructive journaler. I haven't kept a diary in years, but when I did, I filled every book with angry scrawls and questions I still don't have the answers to - "WHY WON'T HE CALL ME?"
I have always hated keeping a diary, it feels so self-indulgent. I've read that ruminating on your problems actually makes you feel worse.
03.02.2010
Bijani Mizell
I wish I were discliplined enough to write a journal. My memories fade so quickly. Great tips!
03.02.2010
Harriet M
I don't like venting in journals because I never feel better afterward. I do like the idea of a gratitude journal, though.
It feels good to write.

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