The Seven Habits of Highly Happy People

Highly happy people all share happy habits. It’s as simple as that. The happiest people I know share seven very obvious habits. If you’re looking to expand your general happiness, you may consider adopting these in your own life.

1. Be a part of something you believe in.
This could be anything. People may take an active role in their local city council, find refuge in religious faith, join a social club supporting causes they believe in, or find passion in their careers. In each case, the physiological outcome is the same. They engage themselves in something they strongly believe in. This engagement brings happiness and meaning into their lives.

2. Share time with friends and family.
A happy life is a life shared with friends and family. The stronger the personal relationships are and the higher the frequency of interaction, the happier a person will be.

3. Reflect on the good.
Quite often people concentrate too much of their attention on negative outcomes and leave no time to positively reflect on their successes. It’s natural for a person to want to correct undesirable circumstances and focus closely on doing so, but there must be a healthy balance in the allocation of personal awareness. It is important to mindfully reflect on the good while striving diligently to correct the bad. A continuous general awareness of your daily successes can have a noticeably positive affect on your overall emotional happiness.

4. Exploit the resources you DO have access to.
The average person is usually astonished when they see a physically handicapped person show intense signs of emotional happiness. How could someone in such a restricted physical state be so happy? The answer rests in how they use the resources they do have. Stevie Wonder couldn’t see, so he exploited his sense of hearing into a passion for music, and he now has twenty-five Grammy Awards to show for it.

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03.12.2012
norma majalani
when i have idea want i want to do for this life and free time ... no body know one of the problem can be happend... if no bujet to done our target... that can make someone droop again... any idea to help this person to move it what them dream and target...
10.23.2011
Karen Henretty
This got to me through my cousin Karina K. Very timely reminders. Thanks
I have left each of these activities one by one as I have had to deal with illness,now I am very unhappy and don't know or like myself.I will try to place these instuctions back in my life,Good advice for the sick at heart:)
04.30.2010
Harriet M
Um, I probably should've written "the second one" instead of number 2...
04.30.2010
Harriet M
Number 2 is of the upmost importance for my happiness. Being with my friends and (some of) my family is an instant mood lifter.
It feels good to write.

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