The Seven Habits of Highly Happy People


5. Create happy endings whenever possible.
The power of endings is quite remarkable. The end of any experience has a profound impact on a person’s overall perception of the experience as a whole. Think about reading a well written, thought-provoking novel. Now imagine the ending totally sucks. Even if the story was captivating up until the ending, would you still be happy recommending the novel to a friend? People always remember the ending. If the ending is happy, the experience creates happiness. Always tie loose ends, leave things on a good note, and create happy endings in your life whenever possible.

 

6. Use personal strengths to get things done.
Everyone possesses unique personal strengths. We all have different talents and skill sets. Emotional happiness comes naturally to those who use their strengths to get things done. The state of completion always creates a sense of achievement. If this achievement is based exclusively on your own personal ability to get the job done, the physiological rewards are priceless.

7. Savor the natural joy of simple pleasures.
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, the best things in life are free. They come in the form of simple pleasures and they appear right in front of you at various locations and arbitrary times. They are governed by Mother Nature and situational circumstance and captured by mindful awareness. It’s all about taking a moment to notice the orange and pink sunset reflecting off the pond water as you hold hands with someone you love. Noticing these moments and taking part in them regularly will bring unpredictable bursts of happiness into your life.

Originally published on MarcandAngel

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03.12.2012
norma majalani
when i have idea want i want to do for this life and free time ... no body know one of the problem can be happend... if no bujet to done our target... that can make someone droop again... any idea to help this person to move it what them dream and target...
10.23.2011
Karen Henretty
This got to me through my cousin Karina K. Very timely reminders. Thanks
I have left each of these activities one by one as I have had to deal with illness,now I am very unhappy and don't know or like myself.I will try to place these instuctions back in my life,Good advice for the sick at heart:)
04.30.2010
Harriet M
Um, I probably should've written "the second one" instead of number 2...
04.30.2010
Harriet M
Number 2 is of the upmost importance for my happiness. Being with my friends and (some of) my family is an instant mood lifter.
It feels good to write.

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