Keep On Top of Your Taxis

What followed was getting educated on the manner, speaking to detectives and viewing mug shots in order to find this guy. I learned that the driver was an illegal taxi driver, what they call a “pirate taxi,” which I had known of in my twelve years here, but had fortunately never experienced to this extent. What I learned is that as a woman, it doesn’t matter how I am dressed, no one can touch me like that without my consent. Below is what else I learned, emailed to my girlfriends, and told them to be on the look out for when they decide to get into that taxi by themselves.

  • In San Francisco, legal and registered taxi cabs have to have the words, “San Francisco Taxicab” painted onto the cab. Look for this. If it doesn’t have that, get another cab.
  • Always make sure that the driver has an updated tag and ask to see it
  • If it feels fishy, it probably is, get another cab
  • If the driver doesn’t turn on the meter, or says it’s broken, get another cab
  • Always listen to your gut
  • Take down license plates and any other details of the driver and cab if you experience difficulty
  • Any touch, unwarranted by another human being, is considered assault. I was sexually assaulted that night, no  matter how much I wanted to be the strong, independent female who could handle it.
  • The police are here to serve us, so use them
  • Do not take pirated taxis, but instead only take taxis from reputable cab companies

 

 

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05.31.2007
Kara Co
Thanks for writing this article. I recently moved to San Francisco and rely on cabs from time to time. What you went through is scary, but a reality and I've found myself taking you up on your tips ever since I read this article. Thanks!
After reading this article, as Amanda's Dad, I'm awfully glad she has the "street smarts" to deal with difficult situations like this. Those trips to Europe and Southeast Asia to which I contributed were worth it! I'm also very proud and fortunate to be her father!
04.05.2007
Laura Smail
Thanks for sharing your experience. I bet most women can remember a time when they were touched without permission and so I think this is a very strong reminder that we have to be very clear about our personal boundaries and not allow people to take advantage of us. Great job reporting the incident.
04.05.2007
Rebecca Brown
Whoa! I'm definitely sending this story to my girlfriends. I never think about getting in a cab, but now I will. Thanks for sharing it. What a creepy guy.
04.04.2007
Joselyn
what a great article. I am sorry for what happened but thank you so much for sharing such a personal experience and the information. Although I've never been to San Francisco It is so important for women everywhere to be aware and always follow that gut instinct!
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