Just over a month ago, I caught my four year daughter in her bedroom, with her pants down to her ankles and I had to ask the question “where did u learn that?” And (oh my gosh) I couldn’t believe what she said; “My uncle bubba taught me magic.”
I was so lost, speechless, and sick to my stomach! About one and a half years earlier, I had suspected something wasn’t right. But I seriously thought that it was ADD or ADHD- but not this, not my baby. How could I have let this happen to my little girl?
I have realized that this is not something for me to feel guilty about, this was her uncle that I thought would never do something like this. Well, I called first thing the next morning and everything was a rush then with Child Advocacy and DFS. But now everything is just a waiting game. I am not a very patient person anyways, especially when it concerns my daughter. So I called the detective last Friday, October fifth, 2007 to see if they were going to question the perpetrator. She said yes and then she called me back and told me that she had just talked to him and just wanted to interview him about some inappropriate touching. He REFUSED to make a statement. So on Monday it will be transferred over to the prosecutor and she will decide.
Wish me all the luck in the world and hopefully my little girl can get through this.
Thanks for reading and any feedback is greatly appreciated!
