Finding Christ in the Earthquake: A Mom Talks to Her Children About Haiti

“Did children die in the earthquake?” my seven-year-old daughter Tabitha asked gravely when I told my children the devastating news.

“Yes,” I said.

She hung her head.

“Will the earthquake come to Japan?” asked Aiden, age six, concerned.

“Not this one,” I replied.

“But there are earthquakes in Japan, right?” Aiden pressed.

“Yes. Sometimes there are,” I answered honestly. “Remember the one we had last summer?” He nodded. It was a small one in comparison, but it left us quite shaken.

Talking to my children about the January 12th earthquake in Haiti was an important but heart-wrenching conversation. With death toll estimates between 50,000 to 100,000, it is even hard for grown-ups to fathom the loss of life.

Why did it happen? Like most adults, my children wanted to know, “Why?” I asked them a question in return. “Why don’t we live in a perfect world?” The answer is one they can recite off the tops of their heads, but it’s easy to forget in situations like these. It bears repeating.

A long time ago, God did create a perfect world. When God was finished with creating the Earth, He was satisfied with His handiwork. He said it was very good. Delicious food was readily available. Adam and Eve were perfectly made for each other. Humans co-existed with wild animals. Childbirth didn’t hurt. There was no death. There was no shame. There was no suffering. There was only beauty and an intimate relationship with the Creator. Adam and Eve disobeyed the one rule that God gave to them. By their own hands, they picked and ate fruit from the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil. Everything changed.

As humans, created in God’s image, we long in our hearts for perfection and purity. People, even those who do not consider themselves to be “religious,” see pain and suffering and know deep down that it is not how things are supposed to be.

When Jesus, the Great Physician, was on Earth, He performed many miracles. It was as if He was thumbing His nose at the fall and saying, “I am here to restore the Earth to how it was meant to be.” People with life-long deformities, illnesses, and injuries were made whole. A blind man saw. A lame man walked. After twelve years of incurable hemorrhaging, a bleeding woman got her life back. Leprosy was cured. Peter’s severed ear was fixed, good as new. Never once did Jesus partially heal someone who came to Him. They were always restored instantly. It was never “take two of these and call me in the morning” or “come back in a month to have your stitches removed.”

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06.22.2010
leslie
I just wanted to say that you are a beautiful, holy ghost filled Christian. That really touched my Spirit. God is Love and circumstances arise in our lives to build our character. I love Grace, knowing that Agape Love is the only love we can give to others, or try our best, we are not God. Christ died to get rid of the law, but so many people are still living under it. I was very sad to see what happened to Haiti but i know it will all be for God's awesome and wonderful Glory. So many people are rising up out of the dust and giving Christ the Glory. I try to explain to my teens that everything works for God's glory even painful things. Thanks for being an inspiration, have you ever thought about writing? It's definately one of your gifts.
01.21.2010
Mamie Owens
Your story is simply beautiful.I have a 5 year old and she asked the exact question did any children die? It's hard when your babies ask questions like that.You know we must be truthful to them.She's in pre-k and her teachers talk about the haiti eathquake with them among other things that's happening around the world and that's fine with me children need to know that death can come at any age. If every parent take time to explain the creation of the world to their children and how everything happening now came about it would be less of everything bad going on.Loving your children mean telling them the truth.Showing them that's it ok to be sad, and it's ok to cry.When we teach our children early to be compassionate it makes a difference in the world.One of the problem today there's not enough compassion.You're doing a terrific job with yours keep up the good work Sarah.
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