Taj Mahal: What the Postcard Didn’t Show

It was almost a year ago when I went to the Taj Mahal. The one-day trip went beyond all expectations, and it was one of the most intense days of my life. 

It began in Delhi early in the morning. I just had my big fat Indian wedding. I’m American, but my husband was born and raised there in a Punjabi family. The morning was cold and smoggy. My friends from the USA, Europe, and Australia were there for the ride. They came to my wedding and we thought the Taj Mahal would be the perfect way to bring all the celebrations to a close.  

Since the Taj Mahal was about five hours away, I assumed that the smog would eventually thin out, but it didn’t. It actually grew worse as we drove on. There was a burning chemical smell in the air that closed car windows couldn’t deter. My lungs felt like they were on fire with every inhalation. The fumes made me feel like my head was trapped inside a diesel barrel. Until that day, I never knew air could be so dirty and that people could actually breathe it in. Keep in mind that I’ve been to many polluted cities around Asia, including Bangkok and Kathmandu. This was by far the worst I had ever experienced. 

About two hours into our road trip we stopped at a tourist restaurant/truck stop. It looked like hell on earth. The land was cracked, barren, and dry. There was very little greenery and nature. Suffering people were everywhere begging on the streets, either looking emaciated, high, or deformed in some way. I wondered if they could still smell the chemicals in the air after living there all their lives. I wondered what the drinking water like, but there was no way I would try it. This whole land was toxic, and it made me appreciate my clean green home in Oregon more than ever. I’m not sure if most Americans can even imagine the severity, for I have never seen it so bad in my own country. Not even close. 

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04.24.2010
Leenda
This was a very moving account of what was obviously one of the more memorable days of your life. Thank you so much for sharing this.
04.21.2010
Marilyn
My goodness! I have always dreamed of going to India, and I am very much a social-justice person. I wonder if I could stomach the poverty & the sights. I'm not sure what it would do to me, but it would change me somehow, I am sure. Perhaps I need to be changed. I would like to be :-) I would like to be better. Thank you for sharing. Sincerely, Marilyn
01.21.2010
Liz Grover
Thanks Anita & Sucharitha. I never know how the telling of my adventures will affect the people from the countries I write about. I sometimes wonder if they'll understand it or maybe the could even be offended. This is great feedback. Peace, Liz
01.21.2010
Anita
Thank you so much for this article, Liz! It is so very touching. I am of Indian descent and visiting the Taj someday is a goal of mine. I truly, truly appreciate and admire how you were able to show the other side of India in its truest light. You hit the nail on the head when you described India as a country of extremes, which a lot of people don't realize. My parents are from South India and having visited many times as a child, I've seen how poorly those people live, and while it breaks my heart to see that, it reminds me everyday to be thankful of what I've been blessed with. Thanks again and I can't wait to read more from you!
01.20.2010
Liz Grover
Thanks to everyone for your support. I really appreciate your comments. It was a very intense yet beautiful situation. Life can be such a check board sometimes-either black or white! I will definitely post more stories here on Divine Caroline. If you want to follow more of my stories, you can subscribe at blog.lizgrover.com. Peace!
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