Dress Conservative and Still Have a Little Style

Dear Budget Fashionista: I’m the female dinner speaker for an evening black tie military event (I’m not military). The soldiers will be dressed in blues and I need to be comfortable. What do you suggest?

The Budget Fashionista: The key to situations like this, when you’re speaking to a more conservative and traditional audience, is simple elegance. As the speaker, you want people to pay attention to what you say, rather than what you wear. However, as a stylista, you want to add a little of your own style.

In this situation, start with a very simple foundation—like a simple black or dark blue shirtdress (like the one here at Silhoulettes) or a simple black or blue pants suit. Now, if you’re a hot mama like me, and have a little extra dough, you might even consider a red dress with a more conservative, but still feminine, cut like this like the hot little number shown above from Ann Taylor.

Next, use this trick I use whenever I speak in public—wear a fabulous, but simple, necklace (make sure it’s doesn’t reflect light, you don’t want to blind your audience) or scarf close to your neck/face. Why? The placement of a scarf or necklace close to your face draws the audience’s attention towards your mouth, and of course, your words.

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06.21.2009
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I agree with the simple dress and necklace/scarf close to the face. For years I was a body builder and aerobic person and did the sexy dressing thing. Still do not look too bad but toned down the style to simple and learned how to accentuate slightly and I love makeup and can do it sparingly and with pizazz at the same time. As Pat Benatar says "You do not need black eye liner and a cat suit to be in charge." I'll drink to that.
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