Who Says Size Matters?

I wanted to share these stories with you, so the next time a complete stranger, casual acquaintance, or even a close friend says something upsetting to you, you can wipe off the offense and even smile. Life’s too short to worry about this stuff anyway, right?

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04.05.2009
CarolynS
I've had people ask me when I was due also, and I would reply "I'm not pregnant, I'm just fat. Thanks" I have to say that is one of the meanest things i've ever said to anyone. Don't ask if you arent sure! It hurts. Also, I've been so skinny that my friends have told me they can see/feel my bones. In this socity where we hear 85% of americans are fat and then see SUPER skinny models, sometimes I dont know where to try and fit in. Great article and at a young age I still have issue but I'll learn. Thanks :o)
04.02.2009
Cutesmartme
What an excellent article, and a happy realization for you! I've had a similar experience with people constantly commenting on my weight... I'm 5'6" and weighed as much as 205 and as little as 72. I realized a few years ago that if I just relax and take care of me, my body stays in a very healthy zone- which some people think is thin, and others think is fat. But I realized I didn't care- it's me and it just neds to feel good :)
04.01.2009
Wyldefyre
As someone else who's weight has fluxuated quite a bit over the years, I totally understand where you're coming from. When I was a kid, people told me I was too skinny. Puberty hit and I was still thin, but still chunky in the wrong places, so I was teased in school. Middle school and my first two years of HS were hell, so food became my comfort. As a sophomore in HS, at 15 years old, I weighed 175lbs eventhough I was only 5'2". I dealt with my depression and started to learn to love myself no matter what. A change in lifestyle and habits proved difficult but beneficial to me. Now I have a very active career and stay thin eventhough I eat all the time...but I still remember what it was like when people would ask me if I was pregnant at 15.
04.01.2009
Goldivas
I'm still shocked by the little boy who wanted to rub your stomach! Doesn't the mother realize that even if you had been pregnant, that is totally inappropriate? Zheesh!
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