Can Unemployment Be the Healthiest Time of Your Life?

When I heard the news that I was being laid off, I felt like I’d been punched in the gut. My face grew hot, my stomach tightened, and I felt a little unsteady on my feet.

So far, unemployment felt awful.

Over the next few days, the knot in my stomach slowly unwound itself. I woke up in the morning and remembered, “I don’t have to rush to any meetings. I don’t have to commute. I don’t have to drink office coffee!”

And somehow my internal clock reset itself. My 3 p.m. snacking habit disappeared and I stopped getting the Sunday night blues. It’s amazing how much stress from work had been influencing my physical and emotional health.

Sure, unemployment is different for everyone. I’d been laid off before—and that time all I did was worry. This time I used the opportunity to develop a longtime passion and start my own business. But even if you just got laid off and have zero idea what comes next, consider this an opportunity to focus on you for a change. Start by leveraging what you have (extra time) and make some healthy changes in your life to start feeling your best.

Find Some Freebies
Lots of gyms, yoga studios, and similar facilities offer free passes to new students. Since you suddenly have no routine to adhere to, you can mix it up! Try as many new activities as you can without spending a dime of that unemployment check.

Sorry Rachael, Thirty-Minute Meals Are for Working Stiffs
Why throw dinner together when you have all this extra time? Think about baking your own bread or simmering homemade soup. Foods like these require little effort besides keeping track of the time. It’s also a great way to save money

Bye, Bye Cafe
Now is probably a good time to kick your $13 a day latte habit. Check out some different morning brews to make at home, including good-for-you herbal and green tea. Some varieties to try are Peppermint and Ginger (to help soothe a cranky stomach) and Kukicha (for a mild energy boost with a roasted flavor). 

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11.26.2009
Chantale Reve
I agree with many of the points in this compassionate article. Of course, no list of techniques can be cookie-cutter perfect for everyone who gets the ax through no fault of his or her own. Employees who are "let go" due to misconduct or to striking, for example, may not receive any unemployment benefits--or, depending on their state, will not receive any for some period of time. Such a person unemployed would be a ball of nerves too large even for a cat's amusement. However, a person unemployed through "no fault of [his or her] own" can take a mental breather between those on-line job hunting sessions. ... Amid pre-Thanksgiving madness at the market, I chatted with a formerly unemployed man, who said that while he appreciated having more time to himself, he was unable to find suitable work in his field. As for moi? I'm creatively surviving my "time off" by journaling, cooking, napping, meditating. No more stress-inducing java with a dollop of office politics ... ahhh ... the serenity.
11.15.2009
Rona BerryMorin
My husband and I were terminated in August. When they said we were fired I was told I had a look of relief on my face. I'm much happier these days being home. I suffer from fibro, migraines and etc and have noticed that my pain level and frequent headaches have lessen.
11.07.2009
Juniper
Although I work from home, the whole thing is completely different from working in an office. I have a flexible schedule as well as less time overall towards work. I've learned so much more about myself being in this situation as well as enjoying an new culture (European) I really look forward to going back to work and bringing my new skills of life to the table. I wish everyone could take a year sabbatical and refresh their eyes towards work. Then of course I wish everyone was in their desired career field. Perhaps this was my mid-life crisis on my own terms?
10.29.2009
Deb Johnson
I was laid off recently after a long illness...long story...the point is that I've been home for months and it's been great for my health. I'm so much more relaxed. I'm becoming a better cook, I'm writing - something I've always wanted to do. I know it's not the best scenario for everyone but if you can enjoy it - do! Nice article.
10.28.2009
CRCR
It's a great time to be thankful for more time to explore opportunities you always wanted to pursue but didn't have time to pursue. There's lots of stuff you can do for free if you just look for it. And no matter how dire your financial situation, everyone needs to take a break from their new occupation - finding a new job! Go hiking, learn to belly dance, try out improvisational comedy! Who know who you'll meet or new interests you will develop. I'm creating a mid-life Life and I am grateful for the opportunity! My hiking pictures on facebook are freaking out all my friends and colleagues who know the professional me - what a hoot!
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