Ten Ways to Make Your Interviewer Love You

The dreaded job interview. No matter your resume and talents if you mess this up you won’t get that job. In today’s tough economy you need every possible edge. It can be a simple equation: You want to be liked—not hated.

Here are ten simple things to do that will dramatically increase your chances: from wearing the right expression, to knowing what not to say, to never ever breaking a sweat.

1. Don’t be a Smiley Face
Excessive smiling in a job interview is seen for what it is—nervousness and a lack of confidence. A smiley face exudes phoniness, which will quickly be picked up by the interviewer. Instead be thoughtful and pleasant. Smile when there’s something to smile about. Do a practice run in front of a mirror or friend.

2. Don’t be a Know-It-None
Your job is to be knowledgeable about the company for which you’re interviewing. Random facts about last night’s episode of Dancing With the Stars episode or your favorite blog will not get you the job. Never feel you have to fill an interview with small talk. Find ways to talk about serious subjects related to the industry or company. Pockets of silence are better than padding an interview with random babble.

3. Don’t Sweat
You can lose a job by wearing an undershirt or simply a little too much clothing. Sweaty palms or beads on your forehead will not impress. You are not applying to be a personal trainer. Sweat will be seen as a sign of weakness and nervousness. Do a practice run with your job interview outfit in front of friends. The job interview is one place you definitely don’t want to be hot.

4. Put Down that Stop Sign
Interviewers are seeking candidates eager to take on challenging projects and jobs. Hesitance and a nay saying mentality will be as visible as a red tie—and seen as a negative. Practice saying “yes” to questions about your interest in tasks and work that might normally give you pause.

5. Don’t be a Sheeple
Asking the location of the lunchroom or meeting room will clue the interviewer into your lack of preparation and initiative. Prepare. Don’t ask questions about routine elements or functions of a company: where stuff is, the size of your cube, and company policy on coffee breaks.

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10.27.2009
Terry Wagner
I was a tech recruiter for years. Have to say that most of this is common sense. As for asking about salary in a first interview: ALWAYS! this shows that you are serious about the position and about your future. An employer may wonder why you don't mention salary - it is an obvious reason why you want a job, so why ignore the elephant in the room? But there is a tactful way - towards the end of the interview, when you are normally given a chance to ask questions (95% of all interviews tend to end with "so, do you have an questions?" I always liked to open with that - "so, what do you know about the position and company and do you have any questions?") you can say somethings like "I'd like to discuss the salary". There is nothing wrong with that. It shows that you are serious, want to make sure you are not under selling yourself, and not taking a position that you might later gripe about not getting a chance to negotiate your numbers on.
10.26.2009
Bijani Mizell
I agree, Neha. Being yourself is number one in my book for job interviews. Your sincerity will come across and your interviewer will appreciate your honesty.
10.26.2009
Allison Ford
Hey, there are some jobs where knowing pop culture trivia is required. I aced an interview once because I told the interviewer about my stance on celebrity babies as the new little purse dogs.
10.26.2009
Buddy Jones
Is there anything more nerve-wracking than a job interview?
10.26.2009
Kay M. Daniels
Oh no! Even more things to worry about during an interview :(
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