A Cup of Kindness: Five Things Baristas Want You to Know


Tip when it’s necessary, and sometimes even when it’s not.
I’ve heard the arguments against tip jars, and I can understand why some people believe there’s no reason to tip for coffee. However, many patrons don’t just get a simple cup o’ joe—they get nonfat mochas, soy chai lattes, and all sorts of other specialty drinks that take time and technique to prepare. There’s a lot more going into that cup than one might realize. “The duties of running a coffee shop fall on all of the employees,” Renae says. That includes not only coffee preparation, but also opening and closing the store, running the cash drawers, maintaining a clean environment, and too many other responsibilities to list here. “It takes a village to get you that cup of coffee,” she says. Tipping isn’t required or always expected, but if you’re ordering something particularly complicated or have multiple drinks in the queue, it’s the considerate thing to do.

And even if you order black coffee in a to-go cup, throwing your change in the jar once in a while is always a nice gesture. Think about it this way: you’ll probably forget about that quarter by the time you’ve finished your coffee, but you’ll have made someone’s day a little brighter in the process. Few things sink morale faster than having a slew of customers who grumble at you and/or don’t tip, and if you’ve never worked in the customer-service industry, trust me when I say that it happens way more than you think. It seems unnecessary to tip for someone pouring coffee into a cup, but maybe it’ll help balance out all those who didn’t tip before you. If anything, it’s a way to occasionally say thank you to all the hardworking people who keep you caffeinated and sane.

Be patient.
“The biggest thing,” Renae advises, “is to be patient and give workers the benefit of the doubt, because they want to do right by you and make you smile if you’re nice to them.” Coffee shops can get cramped and frenzied fast, especially in the mornings, when people aren’t quite functional yet. “It can turn into a high-stress environment in a very short amount of time, so the more patient you are, the better it’s going to be for everybody,” she says. That’s good advice in any situation, really.

Unfortunately, there will always be people who are seemingly determined to make their coffee-shop encounters as difficult and rude as possible. These are the same people who’ve probably never worked in customer service, and since that’s not a mandatory job (at least not until I get my way), there’s little chance of that changing. But at least the rest of us can try to make up for them by being as pleasant as possible to the people behind the counter. Who knows? A smile or a little patience could earn you the best cup of coffee you’ve ever had.

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04.21.2011
Fred
This is BS! Somehow we need to realize the role we are playing at the time. I don't care if you are Bill Gates or Steve Jobs or Li Kar Sing, if your role at the time is a cashier, you are responsible to entertain your customers, not the other way around.
11.01.2010
Jenny Cornelius
The only people who should be enjoying "overpriced" Starbucks coffee are the people who have enough disposable income to do so. If you are going to freak out over the price of the coffee, then obviously, you need to go to McDonalds and let that person who fries the french fries make a nice McD's quality Frappe for you. There is a difference in quality. Real baristas take the time to observe what is going into the cup. They know how to customize drinks to the customer's liking even when the customer doesn't know what the heck he wants. They are professionals at what they do. So as for tipping, if you are financially secure enough to spend $5 on a beverage (which is not much less than the barista earns per hour) then you can certainly drop your change in the tip jar.What else would you do with a dollar? Spend it in a claw machine? Think of it as saying "Hey, Thanks for brightening my day with a good cup of coffee and a friendly attitude."
07.16.2010
DawnD13
I do think that there are many "customers" who actually DESERVE to have their drink spat into! A little common courtesy is never out of style, and employees are paid to serve you, not grovel at your feet! The trouble is, I wonder, this article is simply preaching to the choir. Those that need to read it won't. I am frequently amazed at the sense of entitlement people have nowadays. And a little kindness gives one lots of good karma.
I have just finished reading a really good article. All the points mentioned in there are true. When my mother and I go to our little regular coffeeshop, we order tea and something good to eat as well. Before my mother and I leave, we take upon ourselves to take our own cups, plates back to the front counter for employees to wash. This way it shows that there is a free table waiting to used again.
I've worked in coffee shops several years working my way through college. I even spent a brief stint working in one during my underemployed early recession days. So I can without reservation say that serving coffee is the easiest job and best payed service industry job available without a college degree. It's also the one that complains the most. Most coffee chains have automatic espresso machines that require no more skill than pressing a button. Tips? no way. You mostly just stand there and push a button. If you operate a real espresso machine that requires blood flow to your brain, and can make a drinkable beverage, then maybe you deserve a tip. Many people are suffering worse than you right now. Stop whining.
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