Small Budget, Large Lesson

As a child, I was always taught that you should never settle for less and always strive for more. Now that I am older, I try to keep this in mind but I have taught myself that there are just something things that have to be accepted and will never change. The thing that I have accepted the most is myself and the wonderful person I have become. The second thing I have accepted is my family. My family comes with many flaws but they have all contributed to who I have become. The third thing I have accepted but one day hope to change are my finances.

Growing up as a child I lived with my mother who was a single mother providing for me and my siblings.

Money has always been tight from the time that I was a small child until now. I remember always wishing that I could have been one of those privileged children born into money and not having to work hard for materialistic things but that didn’t happen. Now, I’m older and I know hard work builds character and makes you appreciate your own. I’m kinda of glad that Bill Gates isn’t my dad or I wasn’t in some deceased millionaires deed.

Then I wouldn’t be able to appreciate the concoction that was put together for dinner and laugh about it later or paying for gas in change and waiting for the store clerk to even cut here eyes the wrong way when she has to count all my change. My favorite is appreciating a good date at home because suddenly your to the end of the movie and are so shocked because that’s not how it ended the other five hundred times you watched it. I accepted the fact that I will never be a millionaire but for right now I am comfortable and happy. And being rich is something that doesn’t bother me one bit, because then I would never stop and realize the small struggles in life that make life so great.
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I understand where you are coming from.. This is how I grew up as well and how I loved until somewhat recently. Not that I am anywhere close to rich now but we are finally at a point where we don't have to watch every single penny that is spent. I think people that grow up without much money value not only money, but everything else much more. I never thought as a child that I was lacking for anything but I sure do remember appreciating greatly a candy bar or ice cream every once in a great while and how excited it would make me. So many kids that grow up with lots of money don't get to enjoy the little pleasures in life like that.
03.13.2009
Harriet M
The last line of your story really spoke to me. It's definitely the small struggles that make life more interesting and make us appreciate the good stuff even more. Thank you for writing this.
It feels good to write.

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