We are always hoping and praying for the best for our girlfriends and family. It is somewhat of a tumultuous twilight zone in my opinion. You can guide those who search for the truth, but it is those who take the advice that create their own path.
That path is not easy when dating at this age. We’re not old, yet we represent a psychological perspective of what a relationship should be. You do everything right, yet absorb the idea and feeling that the scary part is being yourself throughout the process. There is no victimization in this process, it is clear cut black and white on your paper version of being yourself in the moment.
If I had a daughter that phoned me with a boy/man problem, I would explain the following: You teach people how to treat you. You are a woman of an age that can be wonderful in all ways if you choose to take that progressive path. If you are a woman, daughter, wife, or girlfriend that allows a man to interfere with your life and not be accountable—it is not your fault. You see things that are there, yet not in the way you chose.
There are many woman in this world who settle. What is settling to you? I believe settling is the conscious understanding of your own actions and belief system, thus transferring them to another’s expectation. Be careful of the expectation in this world, as it will come back to you in full force. Call it karma if you like. I call it life.
