Looking for a set of rules designed specifically for you on how to find Mr. Right? Look no further! Go to your bathroom and face the mirror! That’s everything you have to be. If you choose to take advice from everyone else, you’ll end up in a vicious cycle. Be yourself, get involved in the things you love to do and exhale, your day is coming soon.
I love getting advice about marriage from people who have been divorced several times. It’s comparable to getting weight loss advice from a fat person. As far as I’m concerned, ladies and gents, there are no rules. Every relationship starts differently, moves differently and ends differently (if it ends at all). The reason being? Everyone is different!
My sweetheart and I met at work, which is something you should never do, right? Well, that’s what I thought after having dated my ex, whom I met at my previous place of employment. It was a trainwreck of a situation, and I promised myself I’d never date anyone from work again. Well, that only lasted a few months. Now of course, I took the smart approach and found a promotion within the agency I work for, transferring me out of the building I was in, so that I could keep a professional reputation. And since then, I’m the happiest I’ve been! I forgot, I’m only twenty-five and I know nothing about life or love! That’s laughable, which brings me to my next point: ignore the Debbie Downers!
So much negativity surrounds us today. It starts with the media! How you should be dressing, acting, and talking . . . again there are no rules! I am a realist; my happy relationship could end at any moment. That doesn’t mean I have to go to bars and dress like I work a corner. Rebounds are a mistake, and you are supposed to learn from your mistakes. Ladies, if you are tired of waking up with an empty feeling because it’s just sex and no love, I can sympathize, so let go already. You’re only hurting yourselves.
Life is not easy, and love even more so. It is hard to have faith when you have such a heavy pain in your heart that you don’t even want to attend your friends’ weddings and house warming parties. I know the feeling. I wish I could just shout from the other end of the tunnel! There is a light! It’s here! Just a little further! And the light, ladies, isn’t a man! It’s finding out who you are! It’s being free to be yourself! So let go, take a stand, and walk forward; there are many of us waiting for you here, in the light!
