How Does This Man Make You Feel?

What are you looking for in a relationship, truth maybe, with hope? A joker, how about a dancer, singer, or someone that makes you wants to scream every time you see them? Relationships are more than a thought for the day there is really a days on end job to be filled. When they are next to you what do you feel, is it comfort or coldness? Can you just stay there for a lifetime, or do you want this to hurry up and be over? How do they look is your eyes is it something that turns you on, overtime you see or think about them? Maybe it’s the gray hair that is around there ears that gives them that mature look. The voice that is so sexy only when they are talking to you. Do you know their smell? You should, it’s not the brand they are wearing, and it’s them. Can you smell it when they are not around? That nutty or musk smell that just takes your mind into the…I will leave that to your thought.

Is there any talking going on that means anything, are you just killing time? You know the talks they just go from this to that. But you are really not talking to them, you are thinking about that other guy, where is he and why hasn’t he picked me up, see I tell the truth too. And you say to yourself, you have been thinking about the trample night he had. And you are think what in the hell do I see in him anyway? Are you looking at him thinking, does he love me can he love me the way I want to be loved? Not other relationships, can he love you the way you should be loved? How long will this last? Hopefully longer than a week. Do you know what I mean? As soon as you start talking you get theses signs this is not the right man. And there that goes, another one bites the dust and you start all over again, this is called the single life.

Age does not matter, either its going to work or it not. The year doesn’t matter either, 2007 or 1989 it is still the same, the singles life. Do you look at this man and see, life even if the sun isn’t shining? Does he make you feel this way; do you feel him when he is not around? Do you remember how his, breath smells? I do on one good day and I, know there are others, it was just clean. How do you think he sees you, life or for the moment? And when you ask them they won’t really answer or don’t know how to answer they draw a picture of I don’t know. I haven’t given it any thought. What are you looking for in you mate? Age brings about a change your neither a teen nor twenty something and there is a big difference. Relationships are wonderful if you are with the right person. Don’t get married and find out later this is not the right one, marrage is forever. It never ends its called marriage union between two becoming one, when you see one you see the other. When you speak with one you are speaking with the other, you have become one it can’t be made it happens on it’s on. One flesh, one body, one mind when you arrive at that point that is your mate. (Love) Vita M. King

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05.07.2009
Cheekyredhead
Yep, been there-done that. I finally bumped into my man-the one that was made just for me, but not before kissing lots of toads. I think my turning point was when I sat down and wrote a list..what I wanted..what I refused to put up with..what I deeply needed. After that if I was interested in someone seriously I asked them to write those same lists down, and then we compared them. Those that didn't want to bother with a list were not worth my time. The honesty on those lists was priceless. It went beyond false hopes. It went beyond thinking someone might change to fit that mold. It was instantly obvious were we stood. If that honesty cannot exist, those deep needs met, and similar goals then they are a "companion" not a mate. Too often we settle for a companion instead of a mate. We deserve better.
01.20.2009
Vita King
i hope you get to one of the balls,with the person that you want to be with,enjoy being with.vita King
01.19.2009
Joy Bennett
I remember those days! Thanks for that, Vita.
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