Food Habits, First Dates, and What It Means for Love

  • Being rude or aggressive toward the host and/or waiter
  • Makes snide comments about the way you eat
  • Forgets wallet or purse, making you pay for the meal
  • Remembers wallet or purse, but assumes you’ll pay for the meal anyway 

Since we’re usually on our best behavior, first dates can’t provide an absolutely accurate look into someone’s personality, but it can give you somewhat of an idea. At the very least, first dates offer glimpses of things to watch out for on subsequent dates. Analyzing people via eating habits isn’t an exact science and shouldn’t be treated as such. As Boghossian puts it, food-ology’s “not the deciding factor, but an insightful tool to support your experience and objectives when making decisions.” Of course, if he or she bosses around the waiter or conveniently leaves all forms of payment at home, there’s no need for deep examination—use common sense and ditch the date!

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02.04.2010
John Keegan
Vicki, I really like this article. You can learn quite a lot about a person by just sharing a meal.
01.18.2010
Manoj
Seriously MJ, You've never Paid... YOu must have been very GIVING with your time. or at least very leading. Most women starting out starting in their jobs make about the same. CLose to the same age and Especially on the FIRST DATE, when everything is up in the air the bill needs to be Split at dinner. It is different if it is only coffee or something small.
01.09.2010
Xoco
Interesting. I once went out with a guy that was a sloppy eater and it TOTALLY turned me off from a post-date kiss.Surprisingly, he did well on the "signs" test...still didn't work out though.
11.10.2009
integrity
I wasn't treated like a someone special until I let the man pay! If he feels you deserve it, why argue with it? All "dutch treat" means to him is "I don't feel I deserve to be treated by you". Would you pay for a gift someone wanted to give you? What about being a gracious receiver?
11.09.2009
frances davanzo
MJ, gag me. Your kind of thinking is what caused women to be considered property for centuries. Thinking that a man should pay for your time and company is asinine. That's like basically saying that all women are hookers.
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